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I have a husband that gets tired very easily from work and sometimes says stupid things, like "Why don't you ever serve macoroni and cheese with the main dish? Why is it just chicken and sald?" Nothing ever like calling me names or hurting me in anyway. Correction, it kind of hurts when he nitpicks liek that, but I do realize that he is undera LOT of stress. And he apologizes, always.

Does your boyfriend do that for you? Is there any particular reason he could be so angry? Maybe, if you feel safe enough to, have a talk with him, and find out if there is anyhting underlying his anger issues. Maybe he just needs you to tell him that his attitude is hurting you and therefore hurting the relationship.

I'm not going to tell you to back out right away, as relationships do take work. But I [I]highly [/I] and [I]strongly[/I] encourage you to do some thinking and decide (after your talk) if stying in this relationship is really worth it.

**EDIT: Upon rereading your post, I suggest that you don't let this chat wait. Try to do it in a public place where he can't get too angry without causing a scene. And he gets angry, just leave. Arrange so that anything he has at his place (do this beforehand) if stuff that you can live without...a bra or two, contact lense fluid, make up, whatever. So that you don't have to go back. Hoping for the best, and please post again soon.





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