... My husband was in Iraq for about 13 months. I think it is normal for guys over there to get frustrated..especially if their loved ones need them back at home. ... (12 replies)
... My boyfriend was in iraq too, and i wish i had some advice for you. hopefully hes outta there now and you two are much better... ... (12 replies)
... My husband was in Viet Nam. I did not meet him until he came back so I never actually saw a personality change in that respect. ... (12 replies)
... died and I feel for him so much, but of late he has rejected my support. I don't take it personally, and I don't think you should either... even though he is not in combat does not mean that he did not witness something tramatic enough to make the situation over there more real to him. ... (12 replies)
... I know how hard it can be. My husband was over there at the start of the war and it's very hard for them to be in such an awful place and away from their family, friends and the one they love. ... (12 replies)
... First of all HATS OFF TO HIM!!!!!!!!!
He is brave and maybe all the weight on his shoulders is just too much for him and lashes out I feel for you both &hope for a SAFE return. He more than likley is very stressed wouldnt you be????
you are in my thoughts and blessings
KH (12 replies)
... And i can see how it is hard to deal with the feelings you are having.But just in what you wrote i feel you may know the answer.It maybe hard to carry on with a relationship in his situation. ... (12 replies)
... It's hard to talk about feelings when he's so far away.He may not be in combat,but the stress is still there with everyone..........Ask him,he might tell you,but if he doesn't want to talk about it,don't push......... ... (12 replies)
... My boyfriend whom i have been dating for 5 months is a marine and was deployed to Iraq in January. ... (12 replies)
... my boyfriend just got back from Iraq after being gone 6 months. We were only together for 3 months or so before he got deployed. He seems to be less in love with me, since his return? ... (12 replies)
... I did not pay attention to how old this post was. My reply was not to much help this much later. Sorry. (12 replies)
... if you love him be supportive, be patient be kind... Is always easier to hurt the ones you love because they will always still love you. Maybe he is having paranoid thoughts about you because he is so far away and he is insecure about your relationship. dont worry thats not yor fault. maybe he misses you so much that if he puts distance between you too to numb the pain. If... (12 replies)
... Is it possible that he is already suffering PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder)? Has he witnessed something traumatic out there? From what I understand the moral out there is very low. Try to be more supportive and understanding if you can. Maybe you can ask him if he would like to talk about it and see if you can find out why he is like that. If he doesn't want to talk... (12 replies)