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... This was over a year to year and a half period. I tried to quit taking it and that's when I got my lesson about Xanax. You can't cold turkey that poisen. My mother was also taking it and having the same horrible side effects I was. Neither of us had any idea what was going on. Neither of us knew we were addicted. ... (36 replies)
... Unfortunately, Daddy never really recovered from the anesthesia during his heart surgery, and he slid into alzheimers. Which meant he couldn't help me protest the accusations. Next thing I know, Daddy's been "put away" and Mom's gotten a restraining order against me. ... (36 replies)
... It breaks my heart to think that a mother could look at her child and break her spirit like you all have been describing. ... (36 replies)

... Well my mother doesn't hate me and I can't imagine what you're going through Silvia. My heart goes out to you. My mother has never really appreciated me and I've spent a lifetime looking for that until recently. I finally just let it go with both my parents. I'm no longer looking for it and it is more peaceful. ... (36 replies)
... You have been a comfort and an inspiration to me ICC. I don't know what I would have done without you. Thank you! ... (36 replies)
... ovember so i guess since we are working on a year now i am more comfortable with my decision. it took time but the more i thought about her and her treatment of me the calmer i became because i knew it wouldn't happen anymore. you will get there. the wound is still open and hurts. ... (36 replies)
... If you are like me, ICC, at some level you are still hoping that your mother will at the very least recognise and regret the harm she has done you, even if she is incapable of appreciating you. ... (36 replies)
... tuff. That doesn't mean I am going to surpress my feelings, it's just as simple as thinking things through before you speak. Unfortunately, not everyone around me does that! Yeah, I hear ya about caller ID, lol! You are absolutely right, there's a balance. ... (36 replies)
... YouAreNotAlone---------funny how those of us who suffer at the hands/mouths of others would never treat anyone like that. if we even think that we have been offensive the apology is there. maybe it's time you make some rules/bounderies. maybe make it clear that you are available BUT they cannot just stage a rampage on you whenever they feel like it. you're a good person and... (36 replies)
... parents, our area is totally invaded. It's made for a very difficult situation. Often when I am in the middle of something, one of them walks in and interrupts me when it is not necessary. There seems to be no boundries. And if we are not happy or available for the invasion, then feelings get hurt. ... (36 replies)
... and the hugs are coming your way also. i didn't mean to offend anyone by saying guilty people hide. in my case that's what she thinks is that i am guilty of not putting up with her BS anymore. youon the other hand have a right to remove yourself from the situation if you need to and i'm sure you do at times. you know what you're not alone? people can only take so much abuse,... (36 replies)
... Hi ICC: How incredibly weird about your mother. I can't imagine what she could possibly be thinking. :confused: I don't even know what to say, how sad. I'm glad you didn't hide, but it's not always guilty people who avoid. Sometimes it's not worth the bother. I only say that because lately I've just felt so much like being left alone. There was a big blow up tonight at... (36 replies)
... can get. it's funny how little it takes to make us appreciative but people we do so much for don't care or give any thanks. it amazes me. i actually ran into my mother in the drs. about 2 weeks ago. always wondered what i would do. well i was in the bathroom when she came in and just sat down where she couldn't miss me. ... (36 replies)
... You are an angel on this site ICC. My parents can't even compare to Silvia's mother. It is so sad how her mother has treated her, but it doesn't sound like she's all there. As bad as things have gotten at times, it's nothing like what Silvia has had to deal with. ... (36 replies)
... i hope you have a little more peace of mind and contentment now that your mother has moved with your sister. she is now her problem. ... (36 replies)
... Your mother absolutely sounds mentally ill. ... (36 replies)
My mother hates me
Aug 29, 2006
... I am happy that your mother is leaving you and it won't be long before she starts pour lies and complained about other relative she lives with. ... (36 replies)
My mother hates me
Aug 28, 2006
... oh silvia it is all so hurtful. at some point i think you will be at peace now knowing that maybe there is some mental illness there and there is nothing you can do about that. i'm glad your brother saw it and as hurtful as it is you now know somoen else has seen it first hand and beleives you. your sister will come to you as soon as she sees the full impact of what mom is... (36 replies)
My mother hates me
Aug 28, 2006
... adn't heard me because she was on the telephone to my sister, whatever they were talking about her response was that she never wanted to have anything to do with me again , that I was a liar and my partner was violent. and that was a bad combination. ... (36 replies)
My mother hates me
Aug 24, 2006
... was me and not any of other grandkids who did something 1 a year or never. ... (36 replies)

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