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Re: My mom is dying
Feb 25, 2005
[QUOTE=Tiffyholman]I'm not holding up too good, things are so hard and it seems like my dad, and two brother are taking it hard, I'm trying to be strong, but she was the strong one in the family she held us all together........ I just don't know what we are going to do[/QUOTE]

hi,
i just wanted to give my condolences to you and your family. my mom died from cancer when i was just 18 (im 23 now) and I can tell you honestly that it is going to be hard and definitely painful. BUT - believe it or not, time does heal the wounds. im sure things are weird right now - it may feel as if you dont know what emotions to feel - sad that shes gone, yet happy that shes not suffering- guilty for not spending more time with her or feeling like you didnt do enough.. then having to deal with the others around you (family) who are learning how to get through it themselves too. it's rough, but life (no matter if u want it to or not) goes on.
just remember that your mom is still here watching over you.. and she'll still visit you in your dreams. (i STILL get dreams once in awhile of her coming just to say hi and asking me how life is - i really believe that she visits) If you're religious, turn to God for guidance - and even if you're not turn to him anyway because you'll feel some comfort knowing that your mom is with him. Understand that you will see your mom again - this seperation is just temporary. She's gone home, and she's waiting for you when its your time. =) ever since my mom died, i've kinda viewed death differently.. its like she's the lucky one.. she never again has to suffer -and she got to the place where we all want to be.

if you need anything at all, dont hesitate to ask.

kim





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