... My mother is currently 76. She's getting closer to the time when she'll pass. It's clearer every time I'm with her, she's showing signs of it. ... (2 replies)
... Is your mom sick now or are you just having concerns of the eventuality of her death?
How do the two of you get on when you are together?
Sounds like you're having more guilt with needs not being met. I would suggest you have counselling/therapy to have better insight as to how to handle your feelings and understand the relationship more clearly.
When my parents... (2 replies)
... I am so sorry you are going through this. Is your mom sick or are you just afraid because she is 76 years old? Many people live into their 80's and have a full life. Maybe you can talk to someone regarding your fears and your feelings. Do you have close friends you can talk to? Maybe a counselor at school. Many times when you have had emotional abuse in your childhood it... (2 replies)
... and healthy. There really are all sorts of sounds and actions that a dying person may make that may seem like normal life sounds but mean completely different things during the dying process. ... (4 replies)
... I'm sorry that your sister has her own problems and can't handle the care of her dying mother. There is no reason for you to put on a 'face' just for mom. Did you think your mom doesn't know your sister has problems. ... (15 replies)
... Maybe she was looking at an angel or other family members or friends that have past away.......taking her home. What a comforting thought. (8 replies)
... Well my aunt was at my grandmas side when she took her last breath, she opened her eyes looked at the picture of the virgin mother mary on the wall and then looked to my aunt and winked at her...and that was it... ... (8 replies)
... My mom did the same thing. I wasn't there unfortunately. She lived in Iowa and I live in southern Alabama, and I had just left, when she died only 4 days after I had gone. I think that everytime I made a trip to Iowa when they said it was "time", she hung on longer since I was there. I would get there, and expect the end to come, but then she would "perk up" and be better.... (8 replies)
... My mother was dying in the hospital when we called the priest for last rites. He was on her right side with everyone around. ... (8 replies)
... ve very well. Jaundice, swollen esophagus, severe confusion and dementia, slurred speech, fluid in his abdomen, swelling in his feet, no appetite, etc. Me and my mother are trying to take care of him but its very difficult to do. ... (5 replies)
... Hi. There are grief counselors for children and if your ex is utilizing hospice care (her should be at this point) there are social workers available who specialize in helping children who are losing parents- or have lost a parent. I know I read about a camp recently, camp bereavement- which is for kids under 13 who lose a parent....they help kids to heal and spend time with... (2 replies)
... ar. Palliative care now consists of 10 fractures of radiation, followed by chemo 2 weeks after. We are now struggling to come to terms with what is unfolding. My mother is only 47 years old and our family consists only of me, my sister, grandmother, mother, wife and kids. ... (1 replies)
... My mother was all alone in a newly built huge house when my dad passed away unexpectedly. He had a perfect health. He was young. ... (9 replies)
... Dear Kath,
I'm so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing and more of the difficulty she went through with her treatment. It is unfathomable that there was no one who could help you through this difficult journey. My Mom passed away June 16 after 6 years in a care center where we discovered what true compassionate care was all about. Her passing hurt none the less but, like... (10 replies)
... You will have a chance to see and be with your mother again in heaven. Can I also suggest that you see your son in person to say goodbye and tell him how you feel? ... (30 replies)
... i am so terribly sorry to hear about your dad, it is an awful situation to be in.
My dad was diagnosed on Febuary 9th 2010, with pancreatic cancer, secondary liver which has also spread to the lymph nodes.
It is late May, and he will make it to June, his Birthday is on the 27th July and that is his next mile stone, a week ago my dad got to give me away at my wedding,... (1 replies)
... She truly enjoyed that pampering and there was such beauty in being able to do that for her and share that moment together as mother and daughter. ... (10 replies)
... Talk to your mother's doctor, they may can talk to her with you. Prayers for you and your family. (2 replies)
... What sad news for a mom to hear about her child!! My approach would be to tell your mother that your sister is very ill, and then let her ask further questions about how serious it is. ... (2 replies)
... how to tell my mother my sister her daughter is dying of cancer, mother is 85 yrs. ... (2 replies)