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... i miss my wife so much will i see her again when i die. ... (15 replies)
... My wife died in July of 2002, just a month after our 23rd anniversary. I don't believe in the afterlife but I also do not feel cheated since I had a wonderful 23 years with her. When a light bulb burns out, there is no more light. I feel the same thing happens when we die. ... (15 replies)
... I had a close relationship with my Dad who I lost in 1995. After awhile he appeared to me one night and I've had numerous "visits" ever since only since I also lost my husband 4 years ago, they've been less frequent. ... (15 replies)
... hello barry.i lost my husband last october the day after his birthday and i also have had thoughts of suicide. i think i would have gone mad if it wasnt for my family ,he had his 68th birthday .he had cancer .i agreed to councelling and i found it helped. ... (15 replies)
... Its far worse than living without her death I can assure you. ... (15 replies)
... But I also think of how sick she was when she passed, and I guess I would not wish her back to still be going through all the pain and suffering that she went through. ... (15 replies)
... I also agree...the 90 minutes in heaven book really helped me to understand the "process" and feelings of heaven and just what my daddy was experiencing and it made me feel better. I am sorry you feel so lost, if it does get better it takes time...it has been 10 mos. ... (15 replies)
... Are you still there? I feel the same. Please let me know!! (15 replies)
... I am so sorry for your loss> I cannot imagine the difficulty you are experiencing with all this pain.
I really wish we had the choice of not dying alone as it seems some people have such a bond, they are meant to exit at the same time. You both sound like you loved eachother so much.. with that much positive energy bonding you two, who knows what may or may not be possible. (15 replies)
... Barry my heart goes out to you with the loss of your wife.I was so surprised to see some one from Wakefield, a place I know well, and being six thousand miles away, I send you my heartfelt sympathy. ... (15 replies)
... nd can totally relate to your feelings and thoughts of committing suicide to be with your loved one. Yes, the idea that it might be an unforgivable sin and that I would not be with my Ben, took those thoughts away from my head. You must not even think about this as an alternative! ... (15 replies)
... which I sometimes think may be harder because in divorce the person chooses to leave us, in death they have no choice. I did however, lose my firstborn son to a tragic car accident when he was 16 years old..the pain and loss will always be with you, but I PROMISE it does fade with time..... ... (15 replies)
... You will see her again when you die. I promise you that. I'm pretty sure that there's an afterlife. I don't believe that atheists are right. There has to be an afterlife otherwise this life is meaningless. ... (15 replies)
... I am sorry for your loss.
It is believed that when we die, It will just seem like we left our loved one that died before us, just a finger snap ago.
Like we never left them.
There is no sense of time in the afterlife, like we have when we are alive.
Even if our loved one died young, and we grow old to be 80 then die, it will be like we never left them.....so... (15 replies)
... I saw your post and it touched me greatly. I am so very sorry for your loss and the pain you feel. We lost my Grandfather in November last year and Im seeing my Nan and Mum miss him terribly. All I can say is that your family need you and that Im sure your wife is watching over you and hoping you will be strong. ... (15 replies)
... I'm so very sorry for your lose, right now it's all so very new, your still in shock, it's really hard to funtion. I was very close to my dad and when he died, I was a mess, I had a knot in my stomach for three months, I cried daily, I did not sleep well and the littlest thing that reminded me of him brought tears. ... (15 replies)
... My Dad just died two weeks ago and I still wait for him to call me on the phone to tell me a joke or ask me if my Wife and I having a baby yet. It was something he always joke about, since I am the only one without kids. ... (34 replies)
... and she told me what i for some strange reason already knew, my Dad was dead he had died about 10 days prior he had a heart problem and while he was on teh table he had a massive stroke. ... (34 replies)
... My dad died of prostate cancer back in 1991 and these posts really bring it all back. I was able to say good bye and am thankful that he did not die unexpectely. I was not there the last night and am somewhat glad I wasn't. ... (34 replies)