... i totally understand your pain and what you're going through. i lost my father when i was 27 and i guess you could say that i also lost myself. i developed panic disorder six months after my fathers death. ... (3 replies)
... Just wanted to say I am so sorry about your father. My dad died several years ago. I don't think anyone is able to really understand death in itself until it hits close to home. ... (3 replies)
... Thank you Saw, Ding, Claste and Pittsburgh, all of your kind words has helped my mother and I alot....... ... (13 replies)
... Please dont let the fact that they are there bother you now or get in the way of how you feel about your dad, mom and brother....you need to just concentrate on that right now and cross that bridge when you get to it... ... (16 replies)
... I'm so sorry to hear about your father. I know how awful all this is as I've just been through it too. I watched my father die in much the same way...he had prostate cancer that went to his liver and brain and in the end, he just drowned in all the fluid. ... (24 replies)
... Although this situation seems insurmountable at this time, just remember that if God's promises mean anything, you will see your Father again in a better place! ... (24 replies)
... better place and he is not sick, he deserves that, He probably wishes he could have taken the entire family with him but that's impossible, But someday when it's your turn to go, he will be waiting for you with open arms. ... (24 replies)
... My heart goes out to you and your family. I too have been there with my Father. My father was a military man and my mother and father seperated when I was three. At the age of 13 I found my father and became very close to him thru letters. ... (24 replies)
... I'm new here and this post caught my attention, I went through this very thing. not once, but twice. both my mother and father died of differing causes. but both very slowly and painfully. I offer as many prayers as I can for you and yours. ... (24 replies)
... It has been a long time since I posted on this sight but I wanted you to know that I truly understand and empathize with your situation. Losing your Mom is the worst experience that I have ever had in this life. I also, am alone. ... (31 replies)
... and it is still unbelieveable to accpet. His death, like your father's was completely unexpected, he ended up dying from infections in his blood that stemmed from a total knee replacement, it was very bizarre. ... (4 replies)
... Please don't shut out people who care about you. I didn't know your father, but he wouldn't want you to feel like you're going off the rails and missing out on your life. And I doubt that his death affected you less than anyone else, maybe you just had to shut it down at the time to cope. ... (6 replies)
... First off I wanted to say sorry! I to lost my Father at a young age I was ten years old and my Father had a heart attack in our house. I saw my Father take his last breath and could do nothing about it. I was a Daddy's Girl and it was like I didn't even know my Mother so I had to get used to being around her. ... (6 replies)
... to party and drink a lot more. Needless to say I learned that that is not the way to deal with this. In all honesty the best thing to do is don't try to ignore your feelings. If you can find someone you trust and can talk to. Even if that means you need to cry. It is better to let it out than keep it in. ... (6 replies)
... to get through it, but I will add you to my prayers, it is so hard to lose a parent. I dont think we ever get over it. I hope you find strength and comfort in your days ahead....remember, I am here if you need to "talk" to someone. Best wishes. ... (16 replies)
... I lost my Dad on December 23, 2008. Even though the last year of his life, he was so frail, losing weight, and on constant oxygen, when the time came, it was extremely hard to go through. I am still grieving. ... (16 replies)
... nightmare. Counciling has been an ocean of my tears. How can they be profesionals if the don't have any experince and trully understand this pain. Tell me about your father. What was he like and what do you think were his problems? ... (7 replies)
... Dear Annie, thank you so much for your reply. I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your father and brother. My gran died on the day of my nephews funeral and I havent grieved for her. ... (15 replies)
... How terrible for you, losing your brother so young, Carolyn. And in such tragic circumstances. ... (28 replies)
... it's just that it takes time to work through the sadness and pain of losing someone you love. You miss the person so much, you want them back even if only for one last conversation, there is so much you want to say or want to know ... ... (8 replies)
