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Well, I think your boyfriend is being quite immature about this, but also, alot of the way he is acting is probably coming from his feelings of inadequacy of now knowing that he hasn't made you come.....he's trying to shift the blame on you to ease his pain, you know? Anyways, info about it being rare for a woman to have an orgasm through only intercourse is quite common. I myself have to have clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm too, and every single girlfriend I have is also the same way! Now, my ex's penis was quite short, so he tended to grind into me very hard, trying to go in as deep as possible, and in doing this, his pelvis area would rub my clit, and I could orgasm that way sometimes, without stimulating my clit myself. My current boyfriend is very large, and can't grind into me in that way because he is too long and it hits my cervix and hurts. The only way I have an orgasm with him is if he stimulates my clit with his hand, or more often than not, *I* rub my clit myself while we are having sex. The good thing about that is I know exactly what gets me off, and he loves to watch me, he says it turns him on. Sometimes, we also use a vibrator while we are having sex....let me tell you, the orgasms from using one on the clit AND have sex at the same time is incredible! ;) Anyways, just tell him to read the responses you get on here, I'm sure you will get many, many responses, all telling you that it's completely normal. Oh, and about his past girlfriends always having orgasms....I would put money on it that there was alot of faking going on there....I read a survey not that long ago that asked if the woman taking the survey has ever faked orgasms, and something like 90% answered yes! I guess it's in our nature to try to make the man feel good about himself, huh? :)





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