... uple of issues at play, the first being she may have depression. I know that is not what you want to hear but some of her behavior sounds like it could be. I'm no doctor but I did work in a mental health facility for 4 years and I think it would be a good idea to find a good psychologist to find out. ... (4 replies)
... eft the house only to run to the store. She was a Nurse and she was taking prescriptions for anxiety and drinking but I did not even realize. I cared deeply. The sex and lack of affection came first. She told me I would be better off without her as she knew she was taking advantage of my nature. ... (4 replies)
... As you can see from the title, I'm writing this because I am having issues with my girlfriend and figured that the most trustworthy people to get advice from is other women. ... (4 replies)
... depressants negatively effect my sex drive, at this point in time, i have to suck it up whilst trying different brands. Totally sucks that its either my mental health or my sex drive. ... (2 replies)
... I've never taken Hormonal BC but I know that just naturally my hormones fluctuate. It very well could be some sort of hormonal imbalance. Or it could be just what soloflex has said, she isn't IN love with you anymore but doesn't have the heart to end things.
Then there is another possibility. Is there any chance that around the time that this started (when she was being... (4 replies)
It could be one of two things here.
The Pill for instance in some people can play havoc with sexual feelings. I know it happened to me many years ago.
I never knew at the time I was taking it but after leaving it off on my Drs advice because of pains in my leg, I soon realised that all sexual feelings returned.
On the other hand may be your GF has fell out of love... (4 replies)
... She probably doesn't want to have sex because she's paranoid. Or it could be because she is a very insecure girl. You do tell her she's beautiful and take her places...right? ... (6 replies)
... ings have been great. We see eachother once a week because of school and travel but we constantly text and it's not a real problem. I know I'm gonna sound like a sex addict like other guys but my gf doesn't seem to have any sex drive or very little. In all the time we've been together we've had sex once. ... (6 replies)
... I'm asexual so to me having so sex drive is a normal thing, save on occasion when it makes itself known. ... (3 replies)
... My girlfriend of 6 years has lost her sex drive and I am having trouble figuring out what to do or if it is just me. ... (0 replies)
... A lot of women don't have a sex drive. I think it can have something to do with the way hormones start to shift after puberty. Hormones start to change in your 20's, and that desire is just.. ... (7 replies)
... but I'm the one without the sex drive. ... (7 replies)
... her depression may be interfering with her sex drive. a friend i knew was the same way. he took a vitamin called niacin and says it's the best thing he could have done. ... (7 replies)
... you need to find a way of getting through to her and getting her to seek treatment for her depression. It's highly likely that the depression is a major factor in her non existent sex drive, also it will be mentally/emotionally damaging for her to not deal with what ever issues have lead to her depression.
You need to sit her down and talk to her about this, or even write... (7 replies)
... her that she has no sex drive. ... (8 replies)
... Stress is a killer for sex drive. Are her buddies asking "what's next for her"? ... (4 replies)
... I am thirty and have no sex drive and have not since our son who is now almost two. I don't know why. I can't explain it. And I too have not done anything about it. ... (21 replies)
... ere's a spanner in the works.... if sexual physical compatibility is such an important thing, then what about the 1000s of people around the world who believe in no sex before marriage? ... (18 replies)
... ncomfortable having a man read and reply to these posts...but I have had a problem over the past...well couple of years that has to do with this. I am 23 and my girlfriend is 25. Our sex life was always healthy until somewhere along the lines she totally lost her sex drive. ... (1 replies)
... Yes, Depo Provera is the nastiest Birth Control I have ever used... I had no sex drive whatsoever. ... (3 replies)