... It could be that he's afraid of hurting the baby. You're lucky that you still want it at six months, I was always too big and it was awkward - though we did do it when I was 9 months pregnant with my youngest child - to bring on the labour - lol!!
Perhaps you could ask him. Is it because he's afraid of hurting the baby, or is it something else? Try not to take it... (2 replies)
... big bear, i am sorry that your husband is doing this. maybe he is afraid of hurting the baby? ... (2 replies)
... I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24 and he never wants to have sex with me any more but I will find him masterbating in the middle of the night in the bathroom, to playboy magazines.. I mean thats not so bad but he is even doing it to nothing, he will just go in the bathroom and masterbate. Mind you I am almost 6 months pregnant with his child. But my sex drive is so high right now... (2 replies)
... If he is attracted to men, this would without a doubt explain the lack of sex in your marraige. ... (8 replies)
... Do you think your husband is a sex addict? ... (8 replies)
... If I were you, I would confront him and say, withou revealing the evidence, "Listen, honey...I love you. I care about you. But I KNOW something is going on, and has been for awhile. ... (8 replies)
... Regardless of the gender, he'd rather masturbate to porn than have sex with a real live women. Some men prefer it because they don't feel the pressure to perform like the do with women. ... (8 replies)
... I would also stop trying to initiate any sexual contact with him. ... (8 replies)
... shes. I am finding myself disgusted with it and dont know how to ask him about it. I know men masterbate and its normal I also do but if it takes away from us being together I dont think its healthy. He says he doesnt and lies about it, even though I have proof. ... (8 replies)
... maybe he thinks you really don't want it, maybe like the other posts say, hes afraid of hurting the baby, maybe he isn't too sure about the "new you"
just talk to him if you can and explain how you feel, see if that helps, maybe even try a compromise.
best of luck
sarah (2 replies)
... This is a very tough situation that you are in, right now.
I mean....Do you want to leave Him???? or Do you just to figure out a way to somehow make him want to have sex with you???
It seems to me, that you are already trying..and sadly with no-luck, right? Well, to me......I really think he have a problem. A lot of these responses...are excellent. Please, talk to... (8 replies)
... ouch, BlissfulGjinuba. that is so painful to read. it is also excellent advice. (8 replies)
... thank you, He does look at male female porn but when he does its mostly anal sex stuff.
I guess I have alots to think about.
thank you for your response.. (8 replies)
... far as men masterbating, I don't buy that they don't have to, for lack of a better word. Some men have extremely high sex drives and need some way to relieve it, rather then jumping on the women in their lives all the time. ... (61 replies)
... if hes refusing sex with you and would rather jerk it to pics then id worry. ... (61 replies)