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... He doesn't deserve alone time. He should idolize you. Those pathedic videos he views are not right. I think you deserve better. Am I being too harsh....think about it. You are strong, do not let him walk all over you. ... (22 replies)
... videos even! I just found a small porn stash and I'm between embarassed and upset! I knew before we were together he had porn, however, he was also deployed and in another country. I'm sorry, but I do feel a little cheated on. I don't mind the masterbation, I mind that he is doing it to other women. ... (22 replies)
... My boyfriend and I were together for almost 6 months before I found out that he was looking at porn all the time. I wondered why we didn't have sex that often and then I found out he had a huge stash of porn on his computer. ... (22 replies)

... yeah i also have to say i masterbate on a regular basis my boyf doesnt know as im worried that he would be upset as sometimes i just dont want sex i just want a quick 'release' if he asks i say i dont(even though he would be stupid if he believed me) but we do masterbate together so we arent denying anything (22 replies)
... i havent read any other posts so dont know if im writing the right thing! i dont care that my boyf masterbates especially when im not in the mood sometimes i let him touch me when he is doing it then when he is done we both go to sleep! ... (22 replies)
... i agreee w u totally. ive been dealing with that alot w my boyfriend. it never bothered me b4-but when i found out he has porn and has been watching it without me-it hurts my feelings-and turns me off. then i start feeling like hes thinking about those girls in the video when having sex with me... i guess the best way to approach it is to just talk to him about it. if he... (22 replies)
... I agree, sometimes if I think I may hurt my g/f feelings by doing something that I know will hurt her feelings then I don't, or not let her know if I do or I don't. So if I have a fantasy about another woman I don't tell her I do, and yeah if I masterbate about another woman then thats my private time to satisfiy myself/and altho she satisfies me and theres no problems... (22 replies)
... Your right, I'm not naive enough to think he's never going to fantasize about another women again, or look at one. Sometimes you really can't help what goes on in your head. But with me its a matter of see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil, and I'm glad he's at least trying to make me comfortable about it. And I'm glad he's comfortable enough with me to bring up the... (22 replies)
... Points to CaliGirlie for recognizing the potential double standard. If you have been around these forums for any time at all, you have seen that CaliGirlie is likely the current norm for women. It is a stereotype and, even an hypocricy, that we see women doing very similar things as men, yet contributing to the notion that only men behave this way. Look these boards... (22 replies)
... if a man does then his realationship is shakie to began with, or he is not happy with his sex life and its him thats insucure. ... (22 replies)
... white answer on this one. See, I think I'm "normal" because if I'm not in the mood and DH wants some whoopee, it doesn't really bother me if he fantasizes to satisfy himself. I don't want to control his thoughts that way. He's a fantastic lover and a wonderful guy. ... (22 replies)
... le think just because a woman is uncomfortable with her husband masturbating she's insecure. My husband and I had this conversation last night, because although he much prefers me over his hand, there are times when he needs release. ... (22 replies)
... my husband is a morning person and gets up to go to work on week days at 5.30 in the morning. needless to say I'm not in the mood at that time of the morning so he masturbates in the shower once or twice a week. i don't have a problem with that. if i have my period i'll help him do it himself, or do oral. ... (22 replies)
... well maybe not exactly, I have never walked in on him masterbating and anytime I have ever mentioned it just curiously, he says he doesnt. We have been together for over a year now. I am extremely sexual person, I feel that it is a very important part of a relationship. ... (22 replies)
... arned this, I decided it didn't have anything to do with my inadequacies , it was him . Like the others have said, if it's just sometimes it's not a big deal. If he prefers masturbation to sex, then there is an issue. ... (22 replies)
... Oh yeah, I also wanted to add that my husband and I do have sex regularly. I also give him oral sex several times a week before he goes to work in the afternoon. So I would think he's getting it enough that he wouldn't have to please himself. I just don't understand the whole thing. ... (22 replies)
... I thought he stopped looking at the internet, because he promised he would. I also lost 50 pounds, so I'm thin now, which was an excuse he gave when I caught him, my being overweight. ... (22 replies)
... Ha ha, I know where you're coming from! I get really jealous when I find out my boyfriend has been looking at porn online. He doesn't do it that often, but just knowing that he's looking at other women and getting off frustrates me to no end. Am I not enough for him? ... (22 replies)
... it is nothing you are doing.. if he chooses masterbation over sex all the time, then id be concerned, if not then it is nothing to be jealous over.. it doesnt matter how sexy you are.. ... (22 replies)
... ng a Christian says are more closeminded then the Christians they are accusing of being closeminded. If you want someone to tell you that you are wrong for being jealous or that you need to be more understanding, listen to the world. But if you want a real answer to why you are jealous, seek another opinion. ... (22 replies)




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