... nobody can predict how a person is going to take news like that. there are too many dynamics going on. my guess is the outcome will not be pleasant and could very well be ugly. that is why i suggested a therapist so you have someone on the outside that can maybe help you to slow down and think and see things thru so you won't do something that (16 replies)

... Why, to ease the guilt or that you dont want to be with her anymore? Its really your call buddy. We cannot tell you what to do but if your asking for my opinion i think you need time to think this over. Are you gay, bisexual or was you just curious? Telling your wife is not going to win you any honor from her. She is likley to be upset and confused..You cheated on her and she... (16 replies)

... How about talking to her and describe what happen then telling her sorry for what i did ??? (16 replies)

... i think before you will do that you are going to have to talk to a therapist to get past your guilt issues. good luck (16 replies)

... Buddy, HIV never been transmitted from receiving oral sex as in never ever. Please let this go and move on with your life. You were not at risk, you do not need a test for HIV and any test you wish to take, if you cannot accept this, will be negative. Kevin. (16 replies)

... Still I didn't have sex with my wife ... can i have now ? (16 replies)

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... it would have to be enough blood that you would be able to see it. saliva is a very harsh enviorment for hiv so it does not concentrate or reproduce or thrive there. that is one of the reasons why oral sex is not considered a valid risk. i tested positive in under 3 weeks from when i got exposed. that was 13 years and 4 generations of tests ago. it sounds like your... (16 replies)

... Hi . Sorry to come again .. but some times i think of what i did and u know .. anxiety ;) So let say that there was some blood in her mouth .. does that make me at risk also what is your suggestion about NAT test timing .. is 2 weeks quit enough? how about DUO at 2 weeks ? Also as this big nice helpful forum .. i wanted to ask how long did the poz members her test... (16 replies)

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... Thank you for the answer and i already read about that here but you know anxiety is killing . I will try to calm down but to be able to do that i will take a HIV DUO test on 15 days mark . what do u suggest to help me calm down (16 replies)

... Their must be over 100 posts a month about oral sex, we say the same as you have read some older posts no less, It has and will always be a non risk exposure. (16 replies)

... Buddy in the epidemic of 30 plus years no one has been repeated infected Oral way. Even if your partner was HIV Positive even then your risk is NIL. Hope that helps!! (16 replies)

... Hiv and I truly mean this hiv is a disease without a face so many people think that swollen glands rashes and sore throats are a sure sign of hiv infection and there rong . Hiv mimics other viruses unlike a cold and a flu which have a set point where they infect for example a cold attacts the resperatory system and you know when you get 1 you will have a runny nose a cough... (3 replies)

... Anyone with kids will tell you it is NORMAL for kids, and some people, to have bad reactions to a vaccination. As for worrying that it might be related to HIV, its not. Vaccinations are recommeded for HIV infected individuals, as they are at greater risk, and the shots are not dangerous for them. As for your 3 month test, CONGRATULATIONS its conclusive!! Isnt that great?!!... (10 replies)

... i know it's crazy about the responses!!! hundreds of people view them, hardly anyone writs back. i saw a really cool link from someone on this boeard to a board where doctors actually do write you back. i will try to remember/find it for you. i really do think you are ok though... (10 replies)

... I agree with most of the posters here, that your encounter was low risk. HOWEVER, for a conclusive HIV result you need to be tested 3 months AFTER psooible exposure, and a 6 month test would only be needed for peace of mind. Your symptoms are not conclusively HIV symptoms, as HIV can cause many things normal healthy people expierence also. Please, dont toss away the... (10 replies)

... I know you dont believe anyone when they say its anxiety...but im pretty sure it is...im on zoloft for anxiety, and prior to that i was sick all the time...stress and anxiety will lower your immunity and make you sick!!! GOOD LUCK TO YOU! (10 replies)

... I agree with the others. You did not contract HIV from oral sex. It is almost impossible. It sounds like you have an anxiety/panic disorder, not HIV. Take the focus off of HIV and put it onto your extreme anxiety which you should deal with before it becomes a huge monster of its own. (10 replies)

... Jimmy please relax and take a deep breath. It is almost impossible to catch HIV via oral. Stopthe expensive tests. Your sickness is not HIV related whatsoever. We cannot diagnose you over the internet, but we do know you need to focus off of HIV. By the way, it's never a good idea to just ask somebody what their status is. It doesn't matter what kind of a job they... (10 replies)