... Hello, I am going through the exact same thing with my now fiance. We have been together for over 5 years, and we got engaged a few months ago. We're planning the wedding for this September and every decision that brings us closer to the day fills me with anxiety. I'm dreading the moment we have to actually make a non-refundable deposit. Anyway, I don't have any answers about... (14 replies)
... Hi, i'm very new here. I just needed to talk about my issues with anxiety and ocd and this is something i've been battling with for quite sometime now. And i'm afraid of it's consequences. ... (0 replies)
... Have you ever felt like, your boyfriend would be better off with someone that didn't have OCD? ... (9 replies)
... Somebody please help me, im so worried that i feel i have fallen out of love with my boyfriend of 8 months. He is without a doubt the best thing that has ever happened to me. I suffer with OCD and hypochondria. ... (0 replies)
... Please help... I have OCD and it is much better!! Because now I have another problem that put my all ocd thoughts in the shadow. ... (2 replies)
... He said "your friend", and maybe that's as far as he can go.
Can you leave it at that? A nice friendship? You might tell him that - send him a card, leave a message.
My guess would be that he feels frightened and rejected and
bad about himself since you told him to go.
He just may not want any contact with you. I've ben in relationships where I've broken them off (not... (4 replies)
... and I've always wondered, how many people are out there who have OCD to any extent...My mother has pure O, although she would deny it, but if I knew before, I would've been more patient with her. ... (4 replies)
... to have a panic attack and i said "well just go if your not going to allow me to touch or love you anyway." and he hasnt called since. i talked to doctors and ocd groups, they said he has ocd. he wont return my calls. im worried for him and miss him so very much, no one understands me like him. ... (4 replies)
... I'm afraid you may never understand. His OCD could me a lot more than just locking doors over and over and having back up tapes of his TV shows. ... (1 replies)
... thinks that he really likes me. He wanted to explain that He won't be able to see me everyday because he likes to do "his thing". He hasn't been diagnosed with OCD but he knows he has it. He locks his doors over and over. ... (1 replies)
... Well i cant say for sure but i've read alot of posts that warn against people in relationships and suffering from OCD. I too think i am obsessed with my husband and thinking that he is always starring at other women. (read my post "Constant thoughts of my husband & women)......ANd i too am afraid that it is hurting our realtionship.
I thihk you should stil pursue him and let... (5 replies)
... he thinks if he goes to the doctor they will just drug him up. I guess I am not questioning whether or not he has OCD, I am wondering if it is possible that his OCD could actually cause him to not be able to be in this relationship with me. ... (5 replies)
... Does this sound like an OCD issue or is he just trying to let me down easy? ... (5 replies)
... ore you probably wouldn't have noticed, but the cars were still there. Same with these random thoughts. They have always been there, for you and for everyone! OCD just makes us notice them more than we otherwise would. ... (14 replies)
... I could do with some supportive comments or advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year on the 21st this month. Last year I was diagnosed with a general anxiety disorder however I think I am also suffering from OCD. ... (14 replies)
... t, a little about me. Depression and anxiety run rampant on my mom's side of the family. Almost every family member has it. My mom has some form of contamination OCD but will not admit to it, and has never sought help for it. I have inherited depression, anxiety, and Pure O. ... (0 replies)
... I don't think you should make any big decisions before you spend time working to get your OCD under control, and I'm sorry my comment made you have an anxiety spike, definitely not my intent. ... (6 replies)
... My family and friends think we are perfect for each other. They also say that I would probably have this with another boyfriend as well. But because he is my first, I don't have any comparison. How do I know I want to marry him? ... (6 replies)
... Hello again everyone. I just moved across country to be with my boyfriend, and after a month of being here my OCD has started to show its ugly face again, and its coming on full force. I don't have insurance or Medicaid and I am unemployed. ... (1 replies)
... e become very intense at different parts of my life, but with a good medication and counseling they can go away almost all together. Don't worry, people who have ocd feel like they can act on these thoughts, but I hontesly don't think anyone ever has. ... (2 replies)