... I've suffered from OCD all my life but this is the worst kind. I've recently been having severe anxiety over thoughts about my boyfriend's past which I absolutely can't control. ... (7 replies)
... Thank you! You too! I hope you feel a little more relaxed now :)
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... Wow that's amazing!
Stay blessed :)
xxx (7 replies)
... You are welcome, and thank you! We will have been together for 17yrs this year, married for 14 of those years :)
Best of luck to you too!
K. (7 replies)
... Yeah you're right, he has shared intimate firsts with me and that will always be special to me. He doesn't really care that I wasn't his first because he said being anyone's first anything isn't important to him. For him love is the most important thing. It's just that everytime he is around me he is always aroused and it makes me think was he like that with her? Then I... (7 replies)
... My pleasure :) I won't lie and tell you it's always going to be easy or that you won't occasionally think of your partner's past, but it does get easier I promise. I think reminding yourself that he chose you and shares all these other special first intimate things with you should make you feel extra special <3 I would love to have been the first person to have shared certain... (7 replies)
... Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your story, it has given me some hope of recovery in the near future :) (7 replies)
... Big Hugs Jap1990, unfortunately it's just something you have to try your best to let go of and move on from. He is no longer with that person, he chose to be with you which is what means the most :)
My husband is 9yrs older than I am, we met on my 18th birthday, so he was VERY experienced - had been in a previous 8yr long live in relationship and it took me a long long... (7 replies)
... BUT I've always taken extreme comfort in my boyfriend of a year and a half. My best friend. We get along like a house on fire and I genuinely cannot imagine going about my daily life without him being in it with me. ... (7 replies)
... Please help... I have OCD and it is much better!! Because now I have another problem that put my all ocd thoughts in the shadow. ... (2 replies)
... He said "your friend", and maybe that's as far as he can go.
Can you leave it at that? A nice friendship? You might tell him that - send him a card, leave a message.
My guess would be that he feels frightened and rejected and
bad about himself since you told him to go.
He just may not want any contact with you. I've ben in relationships where I've broken them off (not... (4 replies)
... and I've always wondered, how many people are out there who have OCD to any extent...My mother has pure O, although she would deny it, but if I knew before, I would've been more patient with her. ... (4 replies)
... to have a panic attack and i said "well just go if your not going to allow me to touch or love you anyway." and he hasnt called since. i talked to doctors and ocd groups, they said he has ocd. he wont return my calls. im worried for him and miss him so very much, no one understands me like him. ... (4 replies)
... I'm afraid you may never understand. His OCD could me a lot more than just locking doors over and over and having back up tapes of his TV shows. ... (1 replies)
... thinks that he really likes me. He wanted to explain that He won't be able to see me everyday because he likes to do "his thing". He hasn't been diagnosed with OCD but he knows he has it. He locks his doors over and over. ... (1 replies)
... Well i cant say for sure but i've read alot of posts that warn against people in relationships and suffering from OCD. I too think i am obsessed with my husband and thinking that he is always starring at other women. (read my post "Constant thoughts of my husband & women)......ANd i too am afraid that it is hurting our realtionship.
I thihk you should stil pursue him and let... (5 replies)
... he thinks if he goes to the doctor they will just drug him up. I guess I am not questioning whether or not he has OCD, I am wondering if it is possible that his OCD could actually cause him to not be able to be in this relationship with me. ... (5 replies)
... Does this sound like an OCD issue or is he just trying to let me down easy? ... (5 replies)
... So I'm not sure if this is OCD related. ... (0 replies)
... edly. Even though we know the door is locked we still check. The same would apply to your texts. Even if you could see them, you would still check them, and your OCD would morph into something else. i.e. ... (1 replies)