... I was married to a guy like that and it didn't work out. He either freaked because I was too close, or was paranoid because he thought the fact that I sometimes have to talk to men at work meant I was planning on leaving him. Both caused him to become angry, irrational, shout at me at the top of his voice, throw things at me and become generally verbally and emotionally and on... (1 replies)
... I am hoping someone can give me some advice. I have been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past 7 months. ... (1 replies)
... It's really awesome to see that meds are working for you. Whether it's a typical treatment for BPD or not I'd say keep taking them. I'm a 28 year old male and was only diagnosed with BPD last year. ... (4 replies)
... Basically, sit with yourself and be honest about this relationship and if you want anything from it. ... (2 replies)
... I guess my entire basis of thinking I have this disorder was due to my current relationship with my first gf. ... (2 replies)
... It could be BPD which is not the end of the world, trust me on that. I thought it was when I was diagnosed with it a few years ago. I have learned to live with it. ... (2 replies)
... Having lived in both a pre-internet world and now, I guess I can see more clearly how unreal and insidious the online world can be. People can all too easily consider other people as merely fantasy characters in a game and just have fun wooing and winning them (getting false ego boosts as they do so), with no intentions of a genuine relationship.
I was actually horrified... (7 replies)
... but it really surprised me...I think I myself may have always had some BPD going on in myself. ... (7 replies)
... Hello everyone, I was diagnosed with BPD when I was 17(I am now 28)in addition I also have OCD, bi-polar and depression, I am also considered intellectually gifted(creativity)and I have a 159 IQ, I'm not sure if that factors into anything at all.
I have low self esteem, so much so it has crippled a part of my soul, I can look into the mirror and see a hideous, disgusting... (7 replies)
... Hi I am a mum of 4 children the eldest being almost 18 and I have a wonderful relationship with them all. ... (3 replies)
... I just recently tried to get back together with an ex from 10 years ago. Within 2 weeks he said I'm crazy, and he can't deal with crazy. I told him what I think is wrong, and I am committed to getting healthy. I am going back to a therapist, and I will take meds (I guess) if I need to. (HATE the side effects.)
Of course with BPD, I have a hard time letting go of him and... (1 replies)
... I was diagnosed with BPD a few years ago after having gone through this whole what is it stage. ... (6 replies)
... I am a nonBPD that is running from my BPD wife. If you are diagnosed with BPD, then a therapist should answer the question. ... (2 replies)
... I would let your BF know what your thinking about yourself and see if he has the same ideas about you as you have about yourself.
I know with my PD I cant trust my thinking. I have to ask my GF what she thinks when I worry that I'm having troubles that might effect her and mine's relationship. Many times she doesn't see where the problem is. Sometimes I get so into my head... (2 replies)
... and BPD is the first thing that has ever made sense to me as an explanation. ... (2 replies)
... I concentrate on my work as I feel it compensates for my relationships and seems to have more meaning . Which is also why I have never been in a relationship for more than a week. ... (2 replies)
... not to be mean, but to maintain a, "consistently decent," relationship without resorting to extremes... ... (2 replies)
... it odd just how similar it is to be quite honest... Scary. Anyway, my ex hasn't talked to me for over 4 months now, basically ending the exact same way that your relationship did. ... (4 replies)
... I was told about 4 years ago from someone online that they think I have BPD, I got mad and we ended up not communicating to one another. I dismissed the idea of me having that until recently. I have done research about the topic and here is what sounds a lot like me, I would love your input about if you think I do sound like I have it or not, I think I may have BPD (KIND... (3 replies)
... I am 20 years old and have been feeling increasingly unstable since an abusive relationship when I was 16. For over 6 months now I have thought that I possibly had Borderline Personality Disorder. ... (4 replies)