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... I get so angry and take it out on my kids. Sometimes I just treat my kids coldly for no reason. Like I'm angry and sad for NO APPARENT reason. These negative emotions come and go throughout the day and its taking a toll on my relationship with my kids, especially my 7 year old. He even calls me stupid mom sometimes. ... (9 replies)
... I believe that although negative in many cases, my coping skills are what saved my life after a traumatic and abusive childhood. ... (13 replies)
... :wave: First of all Karenv513, Welcome to the boards!
Your BPD story so far is very interesting. You've started on the path by recognising there is a problem, have accepted some responsibility for wanting to help your condition, and have a genuine willingness to want to explore and connect with others to find out what treatments or support might be helpful for you.
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... slack. That's something my husband either understood and didn't care or didn't understand...it doesn't matter at this point anyway, but mother was the same. ... (91 replies)
... This brings me to her latest episode. Yesterday, after a few days at my parents house with my husband for thanksgiving, we left a day early so we could do some work around our house. I get home and not an hour later she calls crying. ... (6 replies)
... Hi, I hope things are getting better for you. I just wrote a post about my husband and how he is driving me crazy. ... (4 replies)
... hole boss and the selfish husband if I just don't feel anything anymore.. ... (4 replies)
... Hi. Sounds like you self esteem ia at an all time low. As a child were you often being told no, so now you feel you have to compensate for it by never saying no. Negative behaviour breeds negative actions, hence mistakes are made. Are there many positive things in your life at the moment? ... (1 replies)
... My husband tells me that I have ruined his life, the past 10 years have been hell and I am the one with the problem, not him. ... (14 replies)
... that basically said to other people " Hey, here I am, take advantage of me, yell at me, abuse me, BUT pay attention to me". I still wasn't ready to give up the negative attention, because ANY attention was better than being ignored. ... (4 replies)
... ot the only one. People told me I was crazy when I was younger, and I felt like I was some kind of horrible person, I still read things about BPD that are from a negative point of view, I personally don't think it is fair. I have read once that people in relationships with BPD's should get out as soon as possible. ... (15 replies)
... When she was ten she made an allegation that her stepfather had been molesting her. My husband took her to the hospital where she was examined and the department of family and children's services as well as the local sheriff's department was notified. ... (7 replies)
... tends to be associated with paranoid fears rather than negative judgments about self. ... (7 replies)