... I always have issues when my close friends are in relationships as I feel neglected, unwanted and used. ... (2 replies)
... Well, the first thing I will say to you, is never allow yourself to get caught up in labels. You were diagnosed with BPD, but it doesn't have to rule your life, nor does it have to define who you are. With that said, I was diagnosed with BPD some years ago.
I'm not sure what you mean about a block, but at times I feel totally unmotivated to do something. If I want to do... (4 replies)
... e to the point in my drama and crisis filled family that I am seeking your help. My main concern is my grandchildren. My son has a problem with depression, anger issues and alcohol. He has two children from a very disturbed girl that he was involved with for about 3 years. ... (9 replies)
... i'm wondering if there is any hope that someone else can relate to my story, and tell me what kind of help i need. i have had mental issues since childhood. as a young child i had insomnia, a vivid imagination, and intrusive, scary and compulsive thoughts. i couldn't be alone, especially at night. ... (1 replies)
... Hi Marti!
Well, I'm so glad you aren't considering cutting off contact. To me, it sounds like the things you and your husband are doing right now are just about the best things you can do for her. So many borderlines can ruin their parents' lives. My mom wouldn't let that happen, and now she is my best friend. Can I ask you a couple other questions? Maybe they will help... (7 replies)