... No, I"m not asking for relationship advice, or asking who is right or who is wrong. I think it comes to a point where that doesn't matter anymore. For me, I just want to ask you guys, when you feel that you are being attacked, or whatever; anything that can get you on fire, what do you mentally do to calm yourself down?
semidevil-You sound like my ex... (2 replies)
... If you know you're hurting your partner, and you're losing your temper over things you shouldn't be, how hard are you willing to work to change that? ... (11 replies)
... and well...I'm pretty stubborn and lazy to be honest. And stroppy and I can have a bit of a temper on me sometimes too. ... (2 replies)
... There is no such thing as rapid-cycling Borderline, but there *is* such a thing as rapid-cycling Bipolar. Rapid-cycling Bipolar can look quite similar to Borderline PD but usually lacks the history of trauma or sexual abuse/abandonment that usually us present in Borderline. Self-harm, impulsivity, explosive temper, moodswings, volatile relationships etc. are all part of... (3 replies)
... Isn't it stange that people will look at this list of symtoms for borderline personality disorder, and think to themself, WOW that IS ME!! That is exactly how I was, because it's not that you have one or two of these symtoms, most people with BPD relate with ALL the symtoms, I know I do. BPD is definately real. I am so glad I heard about it, and know I am not the only one.... (15 replies)
... damaging actions such as suicide gestures. The person may show inappropriate and intense anger or rage with temper tantrums, constant brooding and resentment, feelings of deprivation, and a loss of control or fear of loss of control over angry feelings. ... (15 replies)
... If your drama and other behaviors are not causing you a lot of problems socially besides the occasional comment or two, then I do not see a major problem with it at all. ... (5 replies)