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backstory: my boyfriend and i have been dating on and off (mostly on) for about 4/5 years. we weren't technically 'together' last year bcuz he was scared of the distance an didn't wanna try. he kinda went downhill at that point but i stuck with him and when i got back from school he straightened out (his mom told me she's glad i'm with him "bcuz i ground him, i'm good for him"). we got back together and went on a vacation and decided we would try to make it work while i was at school (it's second semester, it's been no problem at all, and as far as i know, it's made both of us pretty happy). we've never really talked about the future or planned anything..cuz he's always been kinda afraid of the future, if that makes any sense (i get it lol) but now he's making plans for his life, he's starting to get his stuff in order and i'm wondering where i fit into all of this. when should i ask him about something like that? i was talking w/ him the other day about how we waited (we've only been with each other physically, no one else for either of us) and i jokingly (or so i thought) asked him if i was worth the wait and he said he'd let me know when he had a basis for comparison. does that mean that he isn't planning to be with just me and he's kinda planning to move on at some point? i'm confused. especially since it seems like he's been paying more attention to my birthday ring from my mom, and asking questions about the ring style-wise. my overactive imagination thinks he might be trying to get a feel for what i like in rings for maybe an engagement ring? i don't know lol what do you guys think?

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