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Hello, I am feeling really awful. My ex boyfriend popped up out of no where and started instant messaging me when I haven't heard from him or been able to contact him for 2.5 years.
Two and a half years ago he broke up with me then sent me an email saying he was cutting off all contact with me and changing his phone number and blocking me online. There wasn't much of a reason for what he did, he told me that he was breaking up with me because he thought I was a loser.
His grandfather had just died , so I thought maybe he was just losing his mind or something and going crazy and having a hard time dealing with it. I could tell a few weeks before he broke up with that he was in a lot of distress and sounded very stressed out and strange. I don't really know what happened if he met someone else and he just didn't want to admit it . I just honestly don't know why he really did what he did.

Anyways I was pretty sure in a few months after he had some space he might call me again. But I never heard from him again, and 2 weeks ago I was checking my email and then BAM he says hello. I was actually really happy but feeling fearful to talk to him , I felt so releived in a way that he came back into my life, but felt really shocked. I was so excited to hear from him again and he started off saying he was really really sorry about being an A******
and that I deserved so much more than an apoligy in an Instant message. I asked him how he was doing and we chatted a little bit and then I made the big mistake of asking him if he has a gf now. He said yes he's with someone .

I was just heartbroken all over again! The last 2 weeks have been heart wrenching hell for me. I was in love with him and we were talking about marriage and everything when we were together. I sent him an email asking him if he was ok and that I was wondering if something was the matter. I was worried something may have been wrong. I couldn't understand why he apoligized if he has another gf.
And said how he missed the good old times.

He then proceeded to make sure I see the picture of him and his new girfriend, he unblocked me from his online thing, and there was a big pic of him with his new girl of 8 months . I am so confused , why would someone do this? Does he hate me this deeply. I tried to be the best girlfriend I could be. If he didn't love me anymore, why couldn't he just leave me alone. I don't know why he's doing this to me. I don't want to talk to him anymore as friends.
If he had gotten in touch with me saying something like I miss you and relized life is not the same with out you then I could deal with this, I can't deal with him saying hi, I just wanted to say I am sorry for the way I treated you, by the way I have a new girlfriend. It feels so upsetting. :(





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