... Unfortunately you may never know why hon. I can understand where you are coming from here. I met my (ex) best friend when I was 5, so we have a 25 year history. Like your friend, she had her struggles. I also had mine, but I was always very good in school where she struggled with a learning disability. I always found boyfriends or guys who wanted to be my boyfriend and... (5 replies)
... gh for a being a voice of reasoning. It's hard to think in terms of being reasonable right now since i have a hard enough time controlling my emotions since i am pregnant i'm really up and then really down and can't control it like i could before i was pregnant. ... (5 replies)
... He may feel he has a right to stay in the house, and then again you are pregnant with his child. Can you separate father from child just because you don't want him anymore or just becasue he is an alcoholic? ... (5 replies)
... that i have to baby sit him so that he doesn't accidently hurt himself or choke on his on vomit etc etc... i'm also sick of his drunk friends being around... i'm pregnant the last thing i want to do is watch people party and then have to clean up after them. ... (5 replies)
... :wave: Hello! I am sorry to hear of your current situation and it always seems as if when we women are suppose to be happy and enjoying a stress free pregnancy some one has to do something like this to bring us down and take away our joy. I could never understand a mother leaving her children like this and the things she has said and done lately are awful. I can not tell you... (5 replies)
... Hi I just needed to vent a little. First of all I will tell you my situation. I am 20 years old, married & pregnant, and living away from home. At home it's my mom, my brother (just turned 16), and my dad who is completely disabled. Well first of all my family has not been the most functional. About 7 years ago my dad had a stroke which left him paralyzed and unable to... (5 replies)
... Anyway, when I was six months pregnant I heard through the grapevine my husband had moved in with a woman and her 18mnth old son... ... (9 replies)
... ear old female who was brought up thinking that I had the same father as my older sister. My mom told us that he left when my sister was 2 and when she was still pregnant with me. ... (2 replies)
... I found out I was pregnant on Easter Sunday and at first, he was excited! But as time built up towards the date of my pregnancy confirmation appointment 1 month later, he changed. ... (7 replies)
... You sound like a nice person, go slow. If it's ment to be it will be, if it's not you'll do fine taking care of your kids.
Don't ever take someone into your home that quick, he could have really hurt you and your kids, or even worse.
Hang in there!!! (8 replies)
... My last boyfriend abandoned all of us, including his own child. I just feel like it's never going to happen. And I dont know how to be both mom and dad to my kids. ... (8 replies)
... Then now i met another man and after a yr of on and off dating i became pregnant with his son. ... (2 replies)
... You are not stupid for considering getting back with him. It's normal to want to try to make your family work. Nobody can fault you for that. I've been in your shoes and I know they are not easy to walk in.
I think you should make a fresh start. I think it will do you a world of good. You won't have to deal with seeing them and being reminded of his betrayal over and... (10 replies)
... But you are ALL right, I dont need him and he doesnt deserve me or my son. I guess, in a way also, I feel hurt. Hurt that he chose to be by her side while shes pregnant and completely abandoned me while I was. My emotions are such a wreck right now, but I know what I HAVE to do. Oh and I just got full custody of him last week. ... (10 replies)
... fore but on a few others. Last year, March 2006, I came home with our typical Friday night pizza and a movie, to find an empty office and closet. Yep, my husband abandoned us. I don't say left, because that would sound too easy. I am 44 and he is 49. We had been married for 7 years. ... (2 replies)
... I don't know, FEdwards, it seems to me that you are telling us everything you haven't done, as in been unfaithful, had malice towards her etc etc. I get very little sense of what you actually HAVE done proactively to heal your relationship over the years. I mean, look at it from another angle. Taking the harshest way of looking at it, you abandoned her emotionally when she was... (6 replies)
... e where my husband passed away. So I was a single mom for close to five years. We met, started dating and got married fairly quickly. Two years later I became pregnant and our relationship just crumbled. He did not under any curcomstances want his own child. He was a wonderful father to my other two and was happy with them. ... (12 replies)
... A bride abandoned on the wedding night? ... (14 replies)
... Oh my God. You need to get your son away from your husband. He bit your baby?? He left bruises all over his belly?? You need to get your baby away from this person. This is abuse! That poor baby cant defend himself. I hate to say this but he is going to end up seriously hurting him or worse! I know you love your husband but your baby is more important. I wouldnt even... (45 replies)
... have only been together for 1yr. and 6months. So far he has threatened suicide upon me before I got pregnant just because I smoked. ... (45 replies)