... Wow, that was a bit judgmental, sunnyrise, don't you think? To suggest that I need therapy? I am not "putting up with this behavior". He is not an "abusive control freak". His jealousy has more to do with himself than it does me. Even though we are not married, I still believe I should be there for him through better AND for worse. If someone you love has a problem, you... (12 replies)
... Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 14 months...and i just feel like things are never ever gna get better. he has the worst anger problem i have ever known anyone to have...and its come to a point where i need to let go but im absolutely terrified of the repurcussions. ... (9 replies)
... you don't need this, his anger is his problem, not yours, don't make it yours.....you can't fix him. ... (3 replies)
... thought on that. I am a man and have witnessed some minor abuse. I am not going to say your man will hit you..he may never do that. But to me it sounds like his anger is out of control....and when a person is out of control, sometimes they do things they would never do under normal circumstances. ... (3 replies)
... you do have reason to be worried both for your boyfriend and for yourself. What do you think you are going to do? ... (3 replies)
... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and everything is going great! ... (3 replies)
... But I have never had such a problem and arguments in past relationships. Its almost like I am searching for a reason to even stay! ... (16 replies)
... this morning he called me from work and said he realized that he had made a huge mistake and our relationship problems were all his fault. He admitted he had an anger problem and he promised he would seek anger management counciling. ... (17 replies)
... It's hard to describe or know where anger comes from. I know because I have it. ... (8 replies)
... must be something that is making your partner so angry, very often it comes from the childhood. Im afraid the first step is for your partner to realise he has an anger problem, until he does it will not be resolved. ... (8 replies)
... I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now, but it's a long distance relationship. We see each other about every other weekend. My concern is my boyfriend's past. ... (6 replies)
... It is not YOUR job to help him with his anger problem. He has totally crossed the line, disrespecting and abusing you. ... (9 replies)
... I had a boyfriend who had an anger problem, and while researching anger management, I came across some info on BPD. ... (9 replies)
... my boyfriend is the sweetest lad in the world, he makes me breakfast in bed. tidies up my room, tells my how special i am 2 him. thats why i cant understand a lad like that.. ... (9 replies)
... is is it ok under any surcumstance for my boyfriend even though i have thrown a chair and i have pushed him before but is it ok under these surcumstances for any man to push a woman? ... (9 replies)
... Here are some HUGS for you. :angel:
You have been given some wonderful advice from others here along with some of their own stories.
How hard it is to leave this man you love so much, who is the father of your son.
Remember this, you have choices, you have a choice to stay and a choice to leave.
If your boyfriend does not want to get help for his anger problems or... (29 replies)
... Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 7 month now . ... (3 replies)
... Hi, so your problem is to not let the little things bother you and focus on the good things......hey, that's my problem, hey, that is like everybodys' problem. ... (4 replies)
... Im 19 ive been with my boyfriend since January. The first 9 months I couldn't ask for anyone better, my family went through a though time and he was there for me the whole way. ... (4 replies)
... d with her past and I always tell myself that if I show her that I care and that I'm not going anywhere, maybe she will learn that she can trust me. Another huge problem is that she is stubborn and refuses to get help because she believes its my fault that she is like this. ... (13 replies)