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... and he was 31, obviously on a settling down age, but im not a very outgoing person so i thought well i can also settle down. ... (4 replies)
... Hi this is probably a common place here but I am deeply in love with a Borderline Personality Disordered girl. I have been with her for 2 years and we were engaged for the last 6 months until last month when she had a break down. ... (3 replies)
... mugwump. I am 31 and have been with the fiance when I was 26. 5 candles shared and a dog that is 2 years and 6 months. ... (4 replies)

... Hello anybody that can help or relate with me. ... (4 replies)
... I wish I knew the answer to help you because I'm in the same boat. I'm sick about it. I have dated the same guy at least 4 years, we've been engaged for 2 years and even signed on a house together. We have a great relationship overall, he's very good to me, and loves me. ... (54 replies)
... Its pretty simple..make a decision. Be happy. Your just making things worse..Maybe take some time off and be alone for a little while to think about what you truly need to do. Nothing or no one says you have to be with either of them. ... (54 replies)
... expectations, and the ideal relationship. Remove the new guy from the picture because there will always be new people and infatuations in your life. You need some "me time" to figure things out so you can be fair to both you and your fiance. ... (54 replies)
... roomate" style relationship. I have to disagree with both of you on this point. Not every couple ends up like this. ... (54 replies)
... I've never been in your exact position, but I did fall in love with my best friend, who happened to be a guy. There was just an instant click and I went from being a friend to loving him, and he felt the same toward me. ... (54 replies)
... Just because you love someone or feel a connection does not mean that person is for you. ... (54 replies)
... years and divorced, with one child, and both of us having outside relationships because I wasn't "in love", and he wanted to feel that spark and didn't have it with me, so he looked outside the marriage. If I'd just stuck to my guns we wouldn't have had to go through all that. ... (54 replies)
... I do think you should break it off with your fiance. I am one of those people that would never want to settle for a "good enough" marriage. In addition to that, your chances of being unfaithful are very high if you aren't "in love" and passionately happy. ... (54 replies)
... Yes, I think your main problem is your thinking your family will hate you. You don't want to be the bad girl who breaks up a promising relationship and somehow brings disgrace to both families. That is too heavy a load for you to carry. ... (54 replies)
... What stand out in you post is that you aren't even married yet and you already talk about possible divorce. Married life can be hard enough but it is very hard if you enter the marriage thinking about divorce. ... (54 replies)
... I think your problem is quite common. In fact we've seen it many times on these boards. It's common to be torn between Mr. ... (54 replies)
... t of your post. I"m getting more like, you aren't happy but you don't want to face the consequences of your somewhat irresponsible actions of agreeing to marry a guy you don't feel true love for and having an emotional affair with another man. ... (54 replies)
... I'm sure your fiance is a great guy, and if so..........don't you think he deserves to be with someone who is truly, and passionately IN LOVE with him? ... (54 replies)
... My fiance and I are getting married in 3 months, and I am in love with someone else. I love my fiance...but I am IN love with another. ... (54 replies)
... Wow ok yeah that is a bit confusing. Ok well I think guys just hate to be "bossed around" in a sense, not saying that you were bossing him around but he probably felt that way. ... (3 replies)
... look at this as if you were being told a story about a friend of yours. Your friend is going to marry someone they don't love because they are worried about what people will say. ... (17 replies)


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