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... So sorry for your pain and stress. (37 replies)
... I agree with this. Whatever his intent was, there was a violation of privacy. Yet, if it ever can proved that there was no sexual thing in it, there are attenuating circumstances. (37 replies)
... I havent read all the responses but I have to tell you my heart goes out to you. My husband was caught videotaping an eighteen year old female employee changing, needless to say he lost his job because of it, he has been charged with voyeurism and has a two day trial coming up. In February of this year he walked out on us, I say it has something to do with this because... (37 replies)

... Is your husband at all remorseful about this? ... (37 replies)
... I still say your husband is crossing the line of being a dirty old man..... ... (37 replies)
... That is somewhat of a relief. It seems it was just an idea he had and the equipment was not the right thing for the job so at least we can assume your husband is not a serious voyeur or he would have had some high tech stuff. ... (37 replies)
... as I haven't read all posts...but did the husband ever tell the wife that he thought they should put a camera to spy on the girl? ... (37 replies)
... Yes, you are possibly right. Mothers know (and feel) better. Thanks for the reminder. I was just trying to give an impartial opinion. I can empathise with her, but probaby I can't sympathise with her so easily, if you see what I mean. There's a subtle difference here. (37 replies)
... d. It completely sickenss you to the core, it feels like your insides have been ripped out...that is how bad it is. I doubt the op will ever be able to trust her husband again and it will take a long time to get over it. ... (37 replies)
... deleted cross-talk to SrtrWfe: did you husband finally admit that he was trying to spy your daughter as a voyeur (like Peeping Tom)? Or did he simply acknowledge his mistake? (37 replies)
... Please consider your children in all of this. Sleeping on the couch isn't enough. If I found my husband using my children as sex objects he wouldn't leave the house alive. ... (37 replies)
... eryone who responded to my post. I have spoken extensively with my daughter and she assures me that nothing untowards has ever happened before this. Her and my husband have always been very close. I think it makes it that much more devastating to us. She called him Dad. ... (37 replies)
... ations. Again, I'm not trying to minimize the seriousness of this and I think getting professional help is really important. I just wanted to point out that your husband may have other issues that led to this behavior and that they may not be sexual at all. ... (37 replies)
... le, disgusting and very perverted. There are very few things that a marriage can't overcome, IMO, and being sexually attracted to and secretly videotaping one's stepdaughter while she undresses is one of them. ... (37 replies)
... I hope you are still reading here to know people are thinking of you as you deal with this mess. Only you know your husband. My concern with this is that it's such a huge bad decision. Does he normally exercise good judgment? If he does, and you are normally able to trust him, this even becomes more troublesome. However, if he occasionally has exercised very poor... (37 replies)
... His behavior is unacceptable. If he was concerned about her coming home at all hours he should have discussed it with you or put cameras in hall or at entrance to the house. His excuse is just a cover. In all other ways he may be a great husband, father and provider but that is just a deal breaker. How can you be with him knowing he is a pervert?! How can you have family... (37 replies)
... I have a daughter from a previous relationship as well. My husband and I married when my daughter was 4. With that being said, if I EVER found that he had a video camera in her room for ANY reason I would be done with him. ... (37 replies)
... I really feel for you. This is such a hard situation to face. If you think back, did you ever notice anything suspicious during the last 15 years involving your husband's behavior towards your daughter? It is hard to know if he just made a very stupid decision by putting the camera in her room or if something nasty is going on. My question is why did he not consult you and... (37 replies)
... Could he have been streaming live to a computer, my husband is a programmer and that is very possible. ... (37 replies)
... what to do. My daughter says that she doesn't want us to divorce, my husband's family is telling me that I need to take into account what a wonderful father and husband he has been all these years, which he has been. ... (37 replies)

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