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... Good for you! He definitely has commitment issues. He is what is called a "waffler". They want you, but they are always looking around the corner for something better. ... (7 replies)
... again boyfriend of nearly two years. I recently started wondering if he had commitment issues. ... (7 replies)
... I mean I know it's difficult not to care about someone you were with for that long. I also think there's a bit of commitment phobia going on. But at any rate, I don't know the answers for sure, and all the comments I've received on this board have helped a lot, so thank you! ... (7 replies)

... it's clearly his commitment phobia and emotional unavailability. ... (22 replies)
... when they are in love and really want the woman they are with. But they also frequently use this bs excuse of commitment phobia when they are just not as into you as you are with him. ... (6 replies)
What is my deal?
Jul 30, 2007
... i have an ex-friend who does the same thing--what I see her do is, when she meets someone new and just begins to date them, she jumps into it very fast--seeing them all the time, devoting all her time to them, sleeping with them after only a very short time, falling in "love" with them quickly. Then, usually things are going swimmingly and all of a sudden, she will have just... (3 replies)
... It sound like this guy had a case of good old fashioned commitment phobia. ... (7 replies)
Crushaholic!
Apr 12, 2006
... worth at all, or commitment phobia or any of that... anybody else here heard of pleasure seeking? ... (9 replies)
... thanks for all of your replies - seems as this topic kinda brought up a "good" debate with great points to ponder. for me, i can see both sides of this as i've had friendships come out of some of my past relationships as some we ended up better friends than lovers. and that was it, just friends. and i've had relationships where my partners have been friends with some of... (15 replies)
... it is about commitment phobia and basically self sabatoging relationships due to intimacy fears. ... (15 replies)
Fear of Failure
Jan 15, 2006
... f has some symptoms commitment phobia, insecurity, and lack of self esteem. ... (1 replies)
... as always, thanks for your replies! yes, some one of our "age" one would think/hope/expect more maturity, especially when helping to rear two adoptive kids (she - my ex - and her ex "C" adopted her - my exes - sister's kids, one is now 7 and the other is 5...her ex C has sole custody tho and the kids live with C).... and yes, it IS true that sometimes people say things... (15 replies)
... hi again everyone! for those of you who have responded to my previous posts, yes - my g/f came back around just as was suggested. we got together before new years and talked a lot, shared a lot, cried a little - what not. she told me she loves me and has missed me like crazy and didn't realize just how much. she said there hadn't been any one else, or at least not like me.... (15 replies)
... I really believe that youíre giving up too easily and selling good men short when you say that guys only want women who are dating other guys, that you need to back off to keep them interested, and that most men think women who have sex early on are easy, because those are all untrue and negative thoughts that will tarnish your attitude toward men and love. Why do you choose... (30 replies)
... blem, etc. if and when we get married. I have told him all these feelings, and he feels we will come around with counseling and work.. I'm hoping that it's just commitment phobia and that I will. ... (16 replies)
Commitment phobic
Feb 22, 2005
... Oh Lisa, yes, there is such a thing as people who are afraid of commitment to the point of phobia. My first boyfriend is now 44 and still single. ... (14 replies)
... help or relationships section of a bookstore or library to find books on how to deal with commitment problems. You may also be able to find resources on the internet, if you use a search engine to check for "fear of commitment" or "commitment phobia". ... (3 replies)
... I will admit that I am commitment phobic, and I am a woman. I've had the marriage talk with a few people I dated for a long time, and when it started getting serious, I panicked. ... (49 replies)
Should I settle?
Oct 10, 2004
... The reason guys like bad girls is as Heartland said ....uhhh well I forgot what he said...LOL but I agree with him...:) I'm too lazy to go back and read his post and I am all beat up and physically hurting today. Actually, the reason guys like bad girls is because guys can work with bad girls and can handle them so to speak. A good girl is so rigid in her rules and moral... (91 replies)
Should I settle?
Oct 8, 2004
... I think it might be a bit more complicated than that. I think the main problem is that 52% of the population is women. We outnumber men. Men usually prefer younger women, which takes older women's chances down even more. But I think both men and women are not as quick to marry these days because we dont' HAVE to. Used to be a man needed someone to cook and clean for him, make... (91 replies)




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