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... I have had friends tell me that I have put as much emotion and feeling on the line from a short infatuation as they have from relationships of years. ... (6 replies)
... he wouldnt come home for days at a time. I have family members that are alcoholics and Im more of a social drinker but he gets really angry when he drinks and it scares me. He never paid any attention to me and I decided to leave and moved about 2 years ago. ... (8 replies)
... the UK. We've been together for 4 years now and it's not been an easy ride. When we started it was great, just us. However, a little down the road he revealed to me that he was living with the girl he was previously dating. I struggled with this for a while but I love him and had to deal with it. ... (5 replies)

... and 9 years respectively, we're talking about getting married and it scares me. ... (7 replies)
All Advice Welcome
Dec 28, 2007
... Personally, I think the fears of marriage will go away when you decide to let them go. Those kinds of fears don't just vanish all on their own, I don't believe. I don't want to "shrink" you too much, but you kind of sound like a textbook commitmentphobe. No matter how great a guy you have, you are always wondering if you'll be missing out on something better down the road.... (7 replies)
... y. My DH and I never dated. We met in college started hanging out alot, and we were both in relationships with other people. He said he would have dumped her for me in a second, and I knew that, but I was HUNG up on my boyfriend soon to be ex. ... (40 replies)
I'm fuming!!
Jan 15, 2007
... although he says he loves me totally. I finally decided to chill out and accept living apart and seeing each other two or three eves a week and at weekends. ... (29 replies)
... like person that would come in, do my thing, and then get out. And that to me is unacceptable. ... (43 replies)
Karma?
Feb 27, 2006
... How someone can whine about being lonely and not having anyone, then find a nice girl, but dump her the minute she starts looking like she wants a commitment I don't think is so much his karma from the crappy way he treated past girlfriends, but rather just how he chooses to live his life. ... (20 replies)
Is it too late?
Nov 14, 2005
... I'm at my wits end with my dilemma and deep down I think I know what I need to do, but the outcome SCARES me to death. ... (1 replies)
... tted relationship, I don't see any problem with dating several men at once. I have a problem sleeping with more than one man at a time, but as long as I have no commitment with Raj, I intend to date other men too. ... (576 replies)
Moving In?
Apr 5, 2005
... To me we around 9 out of the 10 steps of living together. ... (12 replies)
... I could try the other things, but I would never go to a bar. I guess that might be a phobia because it scares me even to think of it. ... (16 replies)
... yes, I thought that too. If he's interested in me, he's gonna be interested in me anyway, whether I tell him what I want or not. ... (10 replies)
... but, he kept pursuing me and I fell for him! He did have some fear of commitment, but I believe he would have committed if I had not been so afraid of rejection. ... (69 replies)
... they've all been happy to get serious really quickly, and generally ended up treating me nicely and respectfully throughout our relationships. You deserve better than a guy who is "scared" to get committed... ... (176 replies)
... omes to sex. Good, decent girls don't. Girls are tramps if they do. Guys are studs if they do. It's grossly unfair, but there it is. I know a guy who was telling me about a girl he had just started seeing, and believe it or not, he said "yeah, she's fun and all that, but I don't know. She's a little sleazy. ... (55 replies)
... As my wife grew up, it was her mother that physically and mentally abused her. She told me last night how she locked the bathroom door to get away from the beatings.This went on monthly when she was young. ... (11 replies)




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