... I can understand not wanting the kids around smoke, I don't want my son around it either. I am dating a smoker and he does his best to keep the smoke away from me. ... (7 replies)
... I just recently tried going out with a smoker. ... (27 replies)
... I am not a smoker. My Hubby is. ... (27 replies)
... smoker who years ago dated a smoker. Kissing him was kinda gross, "like kissing an ashtray"... sorry to all smokers.. but it's true, at least in his case! ... (27 replies)
... ask a smoker to quit that only makes things a little bit worse, I'm glad to hear your DH is going try to stop. ... (27 replies)
... This is your choice, you decide if you want to date a smoker , we ca't tell you what to do? ... (27 replies)
... You're right - sounds very true. Let's see what happens. Obviously he will get the idea right away about me not smoking and not favoring it. Should it bother him, I guess we will both end it then and there - however, if he want to make an effort, I will too. I'll be sure to offer him some gum every time he wants to get up close ;) (27 replies)
... round you go, and nothing changes, and no one's happy. You can either tolerate being with someone who smokes or you can't. Or, he's either worth caving or giving a bit on your stand or he's not. But I think it's a bad idea to enter into a relationship trying to start loving someone for who you HOPE he'll be one day. ... (27 replies)
... I couldn't date a smoker. I once dated a guy who chewed tobacco, and that only lasted for 3 months. ... (27 replies)
... Well, for me personally, smoking is a lot more than a fault. It's a lifestyle choice that is severely unhealthy for not only the smoker but for everyone else who has to be around him. I know that if I do find that special someone, I want to live a long, healthy life with him. ... (27 replies)
... I married a smoker even though I absolutely hate smoking. There are actually some cigs that make me sick to my stomach to smell them. ... (27 replies)
... I'm guessing since you are posting this that you are considering dating someone who smokes. ... (27 replies)
... I am not a smoker and never tried smoking, however I've been around smokers all my life. I can't stand the smell, even on clothes, hands etc, let alone breath. ... (27 replies)
... g. I was getting fed up with it and we would fight over it constantly. Well, long story short, he asked me to marry him and I said that I was not going to marry a smoker, I'd had enough. So of course he swore he would quit. After we got married he wouldn't have another, he was going to quit, just like that. ... (7 replies)
... My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now.. he has been a smokeless tobacco user for over 10 years. IN the beginning he would never use around me, but as we got comfortable he started to. ... (27 replies)
... I'm not sure or not but smokers don't notice the smell so much or the nicotine stuff, its more bad to a non smoker obviously, but if your interested in him..maybe he will be willing to not smoke around you if he knows you guys are going out, and maybe he will quit for you.. ... (27 replies)
... The last time he quit for a year he didnt gain weight so he isnt worried over that. His main worry is having to deal with stressors while quitting. ... (27 replies)
... I think this is how it starts for a lot of people. "Oh, I only smoke when I drink!" Your boyfriend's already moved up to buying his own pack. It lasts months now.. soon that will be weeks. ... (27 replies)
... Chevyman,I was the exact same way before I dated and married DH. But like I said sometimes you can't help who you fall for. Today makes 13 years of marriage and even though I hate his smoking I love him and wouldnt give him up over something like that.
I should say he is having a health scare now that finally has him on the road to stopping but I made sure when he told me... (27 replies)
... Seriously, lighten up on the guy. You haven't even started dating him yet. ... (27 replies)
