... Does he dream of one specific woman, mentions her name etc, or it's just women in general? ... (19 replies)
... are very difficult, if not impossible, to avoid. What is quite possible to do is to avoid having affairs and encounters outside of the marriage. ... (19 replies)
... and believe in the sactity of marrige? ... (19 replies)
... seeking local girls online is more worrisome then what he dreams about......why aren't you more concerned with that? ... (19 replies)
... I am a Christian and I believe in the sactity of marriage. Not lustful desires outside of the marriage. Which should explain why it would bother me that he is turning to pornograpy to fulfill his needs instead of his wife. ... (19 replies)
... BECAUSE OF THE SOUNDS HE MAKES? ... (19 replies)
... I know you're feeling bad, but you should know that it's very hard for a person to completely control their dreams while they are asleep. I know it's upsetting if you think he is dreaming about other women. ... (19 replies)
... I'm not sure what your wanting us to tell you?
if you guys were not intiment when you first married ( few times)and your marrige has went south, sounds like you guys don't need to be married.
you sound like your just staying until after the baby?
If you don't love your hubby? then I advise you to start the divorce now before the baby is born... however you MIGHT NOT... (19 replies)
... you've got enough reasons to just up and leave him.....why look for more to aggrivate yourself with? the guy is no good, however you slice it. Why not just move on. You'd be happier being by yourself than with him.
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... Yes, I'm more concerned about that. The dreams was not the reason for my most recent post, it is the fact that he is looking for nude pictures of girls he knows, one of which the mother of his son, and the looking for single girls online. ... (19 replies)
... Men tend to struggle alot with their view of their wives after they have kids. ... (19 replies)
... y have to do with religion and how your husband was raised. Some religious people raise their children to believe that sex is sinful and then it becomes a source of guilt. I do think there is hope for your marriage, but as I said before, focus on your pregnancy for now. ... (19 replies)
... he hates "trashy" women, and "whores", but that is what turns him on, that is what he looks for... trashy pictures and videos. It's almost as though his vision of sex is associated with dirty, trashy women, and that is what turns him on. ... (19 replies)
... e or not. I know that you are a christian, but some marriages are not salvageable and one's faith shouldn't be the reason to stay in an unhappy marriage. On the other side, maybe, if you get couples counseling, your husband may decide to admit that he has a problem and seek help for it. But, for now, focus on your pregnancy. ... (19 replies)
... least. As I stated in my previous message, my husband and I have no intimacy in our marriage. This is something that I've had to deal with since the beginning of our relationship and I've since lost all self esteem. ... (19 replies)
... I don't believe that dreams mean that you are thinking about it...I have the most crazy dreams about things that have never once ever crossed my mind! I wouldn't take the dreams personal. Maybe he's dreaming about you? ... (19 replies)
... I think you are being a bit harsh on him about his dreams and what he is doing during them. That is one of those things that tends to be out of his hands on controlling. I dont have to think about sex to dream about it. ... (19 replies)
... c of my huge belly. ... (19 replies)
... twice since I got pregnant. It seems as though pregnancy completely turned him off, even more than before. I am not unattractive, I excersize, I take good care of myself. Yet I feel like the ugliest girl in the world. ... (19 replies)
... Maybe he's just worried about hurting you or the baby. You're probably worried about nothing. He could easily be dreaming about you! (19 replies)