... yes, you're right, he really is selfish in many other areas. emotional and physical. once in a blue moon he will be really sweet. but most of the time we just aren't doing good. who knows, it's getting old. ... (14 replies)
... You wont let him go because there is something about him you like, or you wouldnt have been with him this long, and he knows that so he uses it against you ofcourse. Mind use to do the same thing. Yu think your in love but your just blind right now. ... (14 replies)
... Hi. I've been dating my guy for over a year. I've told him I love him... back in 07, ...he has not said it back to me to this day. Which I get it. He's obviously not that into me. ... (14 replies)
... question. The question isn't why he keeps reeling you in, the question is, why do YOU keep making the decision to keep going back to a man who has never told you he loves you, who makes you feel used, frustrated, confused, etc. He is who he is and he's not going to change. So you have a decision to make... ... (14 replies)
... Drop this guy. You've wasted precious time with someone who doesn't deserve you. Why waste another minute.
What would you tell a friend of yours who posed a similar situation to you? I'd bet you'd tell her to leave him.
Life is too short to waste time with someone who is selfish - and he'll never be there for you when it counts.
say adios (14 replies)
... You even ask yourself that question. The fact is they weren't like that when you married them otherwise you wouldn't have, right? ... (8 replies)
... okay. my husband threatened to leave me a while back. Kept it up for a couple of months and then said he loved me more than anything and wanted me back. Well, he's back. And in leaving me, he would have been doing me a HUGE favor! Dont get me wrong. ... (8 replies)
... who is 9. ... (25 replies)
... I never really understood why for some women they think sex is all there is to a realtionship...its not that way darling believe me... all men are not created equal..... ... (14 replies)
... I agree, I don't understand why you keep wasting time on trying to figure out this guy when the only answer to your problem is to kick him to the curb. ... (14 replies)
... You deserve much better than him. I know it's hard, but I think all the signs are there, for you to move on. There's someone else out there, someone who is better for you. You don't want to be in a relationship where the guy cannot tell you he loves you. ... (14 replies)
... Hate to say it, but you are his comfort station, no more, no less. He can have sex without any regard for his partner. Why wouldn't he keep you around? ... (14 replies)
... Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months now and overall we're pretty happy together. About a month or 2 ago he moved into his own apartment with one of his guy friends who he works with. ... (14 replies)
... Her husband works at a bar and he likes to hang out after with friends and she cries and makes him come home. ... (13 replies)
... Ok, so I go in and I'm super nervous...like on the verge of a panic attack nervous. So I tell her that I need to go slowly because there's so much in me and I never open up. She says I'm doing fine.... ... (7 replies)
... hiya, ive never been in that situation, thankgod but i know it must be so hard for you, your poor thing. ... (18 replies)
... nd ever since then me and him had spent every minute together. Over the short period of time we've gotten pretty close and have one great relationship. Last week he had a knee surgery and is stuck in bed for the remaining of the summer. ... (10 replies)
... wed by a break of a year then 4 years. The break up was originally because I was not being treated the way I felt I deserved but we got back together when I felt he got his act back together. ... (10 replies)
... He is being selfish. You need to have a conversation with him sometime when nothing else is going on. No kids running around, no big TV show that he wants to watch, nothing that will take away attention. Do not cry or beg or plead. Do this in a "pass the butter" type of voice. ... (11 replies)
... He said it is because that is where he feels most comfortable. He grew up sleeping on the couch. Guess I just need to work on me and realize it is what it is and try not to take it personally. Can't stop thinking that if I were some young hottie he would be in that bed. ... (11 replies)