... have for him. He said that he got over me but now that we got in contact with each other he's started to have feelings for me again. We were about to get back into a relationship, we had sex, I had a pregnancy scare and it completely turned everything around. ... (4 replies)
... d again. I know i should have left the first time he said it, I was silly to keep going, but I did. Anyway after that he has been distracted on times, he doesn't go out looking for someone else but if some one shows him interest he will flirt, swap numbers and text. he even arranged dates until i caught him out. ... (6 replies)
... k me a year and a half of looking and calling on my breaks and lunches while I had a job to make it happen. But meanwhile it all she got a DUI and I continued to go to country for custody of my kids and child support just a lot of problems rolled in to one. We would joke and tell each other that it would got better. ... (3 replies)
... to xa down, quit thinking irrationally , and just be happy. I have not felt that way since and we are happier as ever. We will be together 4 years in may! I did go through a few days of depression because to be honest, in the beginning of our relationship, a couple years ago I made 2 mistakes. ... (20 replies)
... am most likely to manage is to try and defend myself more and show that I don't want to be treated this way. It might take a little while because already today I let something go by without sticking up for myself. ... (11 replies)
... Don't let what I said give you more anxiety! I'm the same way, if someone says something to me about this subject of losing interest, I freak out too. ... (20 replies)
... Doesn't your kid go to a preschool, where you can meet other parents? ... (14 replies)
... In the beginning things were really difficult, all the trust issues and we both didnt want to go back to how things were and it was really a messy situation, these days we are doing really good and things are definitely moving a long fine. ... (83 replies)
... You will be in a never ending cycle because the more time and parts of you that you invest, the harder it is to let go no matter what he does as we can see by what's going on right now. ... (83 replies)
... You do not mention how long you were together, not that it matters in the great scheme of how you are feeling at all.
Oh, goodness, I have been there, feeling as you do, the sadness attached to songs, movies, places, dawns, waking together..
It all bloody well hurts when no longer there.
Now, odd you may think, to be saying this when all you... (6 replies)
... thing we did it just provokes all sorts of feelings, Id like to just look back on the good times and view them as that. I just feel a sense of not being able to let go of this past and the thought of her not being around when she returns to her country scares me. ... (6 replies)
... give that life up, for a man. So cinting, if you don't have a personal life, beyond this man, use this back off time to start developing one. If you had one and let it go, use this back off time to repair and rebuild it. ... (33 replies)
... its been four months since mine and im only just able to even want to let go...there comes a point when you just feel as though you have had enough... ... (33 replies)
... I've been doing some thinking. I don't feel the same kind of pain now. I can let go of my ex and though I still want him to realize what he lost, I don't want to be with him anymore. I miss him, and I still feel a little lost without him. ... (9 replies)
... I agree, unfortunately when you start a relationship off as purely sexual, you have very little chance of having it ever develop into something more where feelings become involved on his part. ... (7 replies)
... When we wish to control our fate is when we are least able to find the things that are really meant to be in our lives. Perhaps it's time to let go..Elated, really let go. The other thread speaks of letting go vs. obsession. ... (217 replies)
... ive you some lame excuse afterward when cornered, is a man with very little character and integrity. He's obviously someone who had little if any regard for your feelings and your life. The best thing you can do is hold your head up, be confident in the fact that he wasn't anywhere near good enough for you, and move on. ... (16 replies)
... Tell me about it!!! It just takes time is all, and most importantly, acceptance. So many people go through the same feelings after a break up that it's hard to categorise it as obsession. It's just that you love someone so much it's hard to accept the truth and let go. ... (16 replies)
... I know that if I found out my bf had been with another woman, or ever chose another woman over me, I would never go back. No excuses, no explanations. You make your bed, so lie in it. If he has to go somewhere else to decide if he really loves me, then he's not worth my time. ... (217 replies)
... The reason for our breakup was due to the fact that he could not let go of his ex so I told him to take a hike. He would not leave me alone though. ... (13 replies)