... ven been jealous in the past when I had other girlfriends, and thought I wasn't attracted to her physically. I didn't know I was doing such a good job hiding my feelings for her. ... (4 replies)
... I just think it's so hard to let go because life does get really lonely at times. ... (9 replies)
... s any exasperation with you as I would be a huge hypocrite. In a way, knowing that there are others going through the same thing helps me to work towards letting go and I have only sincerest wishes that you can eventually do that someday. ... (9 replies)
... he is 27 and I am 24. We've been able to work through interpersonal issues and rough patches but a problem still exists that I just can't let go of it, and I don't know that I should. ... (5 replies)
... what happened, except that I keep getting emotionally charged about one girl. This was the only girl out of the small group before I moved that he had developed feelings for. REAL FEELINGS. Although he decided that he wanted to be with me, and that what he had done with her was a mistake, he still is friends with her. ... (5 replies)
... He is not mature enough to have a proper relationship with any women, including you. You mean nothing to him and he will go his whole life, wandering from one woman to the next, never able to make a commitment. His type never do. ... (9 replies)
... You have honoured your feelings by being there for her. You respected yourself, and your true self. Be proud. ... (9 replies)
... main thing was that we still loved each other, and would always work out any problem. I asked her why all them years ago, she had just dissappeared from me, and let her know that I was extremely hurt by what had happened... ... (9 replies)
... iendly, no one seems to share about their private lives. Anyway, about two months ago, I got the feeling that "Sue" was a bit flirtatious toward me. She seems to go out of her way to touch me on the arm when I pass by, or if we're chatting, she'll take my hand and say "Feel my hands, they're so cold. ... (4 replies)
... Hi, I agree with the previous poster Rose and I could not have said it better. In my younger days I fell for a women just like this. Her feelings about no intimacy were so deep rooted I had to let her go but I figured out that she had been intimate before with some really aggressive guys who took advantage of her so she equated intimacy with hurt and there was absolutely no... (5 replies)
... the truth is always the route we will go no matter what. ... (5 replies)
... because I feel like my love life will never change. I am trying to change my mindset but for some reason I am so afraid I will be alone for the rest of my life. Let me explain, because it might sound like I have no reason to be worried, but then I feel like something is really wrong.. ... (3 replies)
... ry Slim built Asian male i meet is like a slap in the face and sends me back into my depressed state. Once something like this has triggered my depression i then go down my slope of torturing myself if you will. ... (10 replies)
... This seemed like a great place to vent out some of the problems and feelings I've been having lately. ... (1 replies)
... In the beginning things were really difficult, all the trust issues and we both didnt want to go back to how things were and it was really a messy situation, these days we are doing really good and things are definitely moving a long fine. ... (83 replies)
... You will be in a never ending cycle because the more time and parts of you that you invest, the harder it is to let go no matter what he does as we can see by what's going on right now. ... (83 replies)
... You do not mention how long you were together, not that it matters in the great scheme of how you are feeling at all.
Oh, goodness, I have been there, feeling as you do, the sadness attached to songs, movies, places, dawns, waking together..
It all bloody well hurts when no longer there.
Now, odd you may think, to be saying this when all you... (6 replies)
... thing we did it just provokes all sorts of feelings, Id like to just look back on the good times and view them as that. I just feel a sense of not being able to let go of this past and the thought of her not being around when she returns to her country scares me. ... (6 replies)
... give that life up, for a man. So cinting, if you don't have a personal life, beyond this man, use this back off time to start developing one. If you had one and let it go, use this back off time to repair and rebuild it. ... (33 replies)
... its been four months since mine and im only just able to even want to let go...there comes a point when you just feel as though you have had enough... ... (33 replies)