... pantry than I can even fathom with absolutely nothing provided to the house from her pocket. She knows my feelings towards many of these frustrations. She agrees about some issues, or, will make a short, snippy comment like 'well sorry you get home earlier than I do. ... (2 replies)
... ok for in a man. Problem is I wasn't looking. It just happened. I am in an extremely long term, loving, happy relationship. I am just so confused now about these feelings that I can't seem to shake. I really want to be a part of this mans life just not now. ... (7 replies)
... n my gf. She laughs at the stupid crap I say, she's very pretty and lets just say I have a lot of fantasies that involve her, but being in a relationship I never let it get beyond a friendship. I got a new job, and when I left, she told me she has had feelings for me for months. ... (3 replies)
... and all that before we went to bed. I guess my sister felt left out, and being the 17 year old girl that she was at the time, I guess she wasn't mature enough to let me know or try to get involved in our girl sessions. But anyway, all our giggling made my sister upset and she cursed us out, telling us to shut up. ... (1 replies)
... In the beginning things were really difficult, all the trust issues and we both didnt want to go back to how things were and it was really a messy situation, these days we are doing really good and things are definitely moving a long fine. ... (83 replies)
... You will be in a never ending cycle because the more time and parts of you that you invest, the harder it is to let go no matter what he does as we can see by what's going on right now. ... (83 replies)
... You do not mention how long you were together, not that it matters in the great scheme of how you are feeling at all.
Oh, goodness, I have been there, feeling as you do, the sadness attached to songs, movies, places, dawns, waking together..
It all bloody well hurts when no longer there.
Now, odd you may think, to be saying this when all you... (6 replies)
... thing we did it just provokes all sorts of feelings, Id like to just look back on the good times and view them as that. I just feel a sense of not being able to let go of this past and the thought of her not being around when she returns to her country scares me. ... (6 replies)
... give that life up, for a man. So cinting, if you don't have a personal life, beyond this man, use this back off time to start developing one. If you had one and let it go, use this back off time to repair and rebuild it. ... (33 replies)
... its been four months since mine and im only just able to even want to let go...there comes a point when you just feel as though you have had enough... ... (33 replies)
... I've been doing some thinking. I don't feel the same kind of pain now. I can let go of my ex and though I still want him to realize what he lost, I don't want to be with him anymore. I miss him, and I still feel a little lost without him. ... (9 replies)
... I agree, unfortunately when you start a relationship off as purely sexual, you have very little chance of having it ever develop into something more where feelings become involved on his part. ... (7 replies)
... When we wish to control our fate is when we are least able to find the things that are really meant to be in our lives. Perhaps it's time to let go..Elated, really let go. The other thread speaks of letting go vs. obsession. ... (216 replies)
... ive you some lame excuse afterward when cornered, is a man with very little character and integrity. He's obviously someone who had little if any regard for your feelings and your life. The best thing you can do is hold your head up, be confident in the fact that he wasn't anywhere near good enough for you, and move on. ... (16 replies)
... Tell me about it!!! It just takes time is all, and most importantly, acceptance. So many people go through the same feelings after a break up that it's hard to categorise it as obsession. It's just that you love someone so much it's hard to accept the truth and let go. ... (16 replies)
... I know that if I found out my bf had been with another woman, or ever chose another woman over me, I would never go back. No excuses, no explanations. You make your bed, so lie in it. If he has to go somewhere else to decide if he really loves me, then he's not worth my time. ... (216 replies)
... The reason for our breakup was due to the fact that he could not let go of his ex so I told him to take a hike. He would not leave me alone though. ... (13 replies)
... that I should too, with guys. So I said we could be friends, and he laughed saying we could try but that it would never work out. That we obviously have stronger feelings for each other. ... (1 replies)
... I just think it's so hard to let go because life does get really lonely at times. ... (9 replies)
... s any exasperation with you as I would be a huge hypocrite. In a way, knowing that there are others going through the same thing helps me to work towards letting go and I have only sincerest wishes that you can eventually do that someday. ... (9 replies)