... ths or more to find a job fix my credit, save up some money and get a place of my own. we almost separated a couple weekends ago but I realized I had no where to go but my car and I would have to leave kids behind so I sucked it up and told him what he wanted to hear to buy me some time. ... (9 replies)
... y fiance..er boyfriend..hell I dont know what we are anymore, off and on for 10 years. when we first started dating it was just full of passion and the fluttery feelings of a new relationship. ... (9 replies)
... his is that I see both sides...I see how my husband is cold shouldering her and I also see how my mom is annoying and overbearing. I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings by telling her this. I have talked to my husband about it. He has tried to be more tolerant but after a while, it's really hard to be around. ... (1 replies)
... We worked it out he told me everything, how it was pure ego trip for him and no feelings for her, etc etc, he cut off all contact with her, and showed me the message thread between him and her to prove it to me. ... (8 replies)
... t post them on FB either. I let her control the situation. She said she was just trying to spare his feelings and I accepted it because I was hoping that I would eventually be with her forever. ... (8 replies)
... ugh he got a bit serious telling me he loved me and started making plans for the future. then something weird happened, we were talking on the phone and i had to go to work so he said he would call me later, he never did, i figured he had gone to sleep. ... (14 replies)
... For example, he's supportive and comes to a few of my gigs, but it's hard to bring him to some that I'd like someone to go with me, or share the experience with me to because of social anxieties, lack of being in the community, lack of interest, etc. ... (2 replies)
... In the beginning things were really difficult, all the trust issues and we both didnt want to go back to how things were and it was really a messy situation, these days we are doing really good and things are definitely moving a long fine. ... (83 replies)
... You will be in a never ending cycle because the more time and parts of you that you invest, the harder it is to let go no matter what he does as we can see by what's going on right now. ... (83 replies)
... You do not mention how long you were together, not that it matters in the great scheme of how you are feeling at all.
Oh, goodness, I have been there, feeling as you do, the sadness attached to songs, movies, places, dawns, waking together..
It all bloody well hurts when no longer there.
Now, odd you may think, to be saying this when all you... (6 replies)
... thing we did it just provokes all sorts of feelings, Id like to just look back on the good times and view them as that. I just feel a sense of not being able to let go of this past and the thought of her not being around when she returns to her country scares me. ... (6 replies)
... give that life up, for a man. So cinting, if you don't have a personal life, beyond this man, use this back off time to start developing one. If you had one and let it go, use this back off time to repair and rebuild it. ... (33 replies)
... its been four months since mine and im only just able to even want to let go...there comes a point when you just feel as though you have had enough... ... (33 replies)
... I've been doing some thinking. I don't feel the same kind of pain now. I can let go of my ex and though I still want him to realize what he lost, I don't want to be with him anymore. I miss him, and I still feel a little lost without him. ... (9 replies)
... I agree, unfortunately when you start a relationship off as purely sexual, you have very little chance of having it ever develop into something more where feelings become involved on his part. ... (7 replies)
... When we wish to control our fate is when we are least able to find the things that are really meant to be in our lives. Perhaps it's time to let go..Elated, really let go. The other thread speaks of letting go vs. obsession. ... (216 replies)
... ive you some lame excuse afterward when cornered, is a man with very little character and integrity. He's obviously someone who had little if any regard for your feelings and your life. The best thing you can do is hold your head up, be confident in the fact that he wasn't anywhere near good enough for you, and move on. ... (16 replies)
... Tell me about it!!! It just takes time is all, and most importantly, acceptance. So many people go through the same feelings after a break up that it's hard to categorise it as obsession. It's just that you love someone so much it's hard to accept the truth and let go. ... (16 replies)
... I know that if I found out my bf had been with another woman, or ever chose another woman over me, I would never go back. No excuses, no explanations. You make your bed, so lie in it. If he has to go somewhere else to decide if he really loves me, then he's not worth my time. ... (216 replies)
... The reason for our breakup was due to the fact that he could not let go of his ex so I told him to take a hike. He would not leave me alone though. ... (13 replies)