... Thank you for taking the effort to read my first post. ... (5 replies)
... I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 2 months. She's trust me more than anyone else in the world and has for awhile. ... (0 replies)
... This is about my girlfriend of about 4 months now. ... (39 replies)
... I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 11 months, and even though we have issues I see potential. ... (17 replies)
... ain that i cant do EVERYTHING with her and that she has to learn how to do things by herself sometimes. then a few hours pass an she texts me saying 'someone got raped a few days ago at the subway station, would be funny if that happened to me' obviously it wouldnt. i told her this and she replies with 'wtv not like you care'. ... (16 replies)
... First and foremost - The police never would have told her not to tell anyone. You need to get to the bottom of this.
I used to work on a hotline and I have talked with many women that have been raped more than once in their lives - having said that - there is a lie being told here. (48 replies)
... an who I thought wouldn't say A, B, C about me got progressively more outlandish in the things she was coming out with. Very early on she told me her husband had raped her. It was a lie. ... (48 replies)
... er. Does it not seem suspicious to you at all that as soon as you two had broken up, she just happened to be left on a secluded beach and someone came along and raped her? ... (48 replies)
... If you didn't want to be with her before, how does her getting raped change a single thing? ... (48 replies)
... Whether or not this girl was raped is not clear to me I don't know her or you, I was a rape victim myself my reaction was very different from hers, I didn't tell anyone. ... (48 replies)
... Another thing i would like to drop, she would never say i raped her. You guys are turning this into something COMPLETELY different than i intended. ... (48 replies)
It's hard for us to give advice when we don't believe the situation. And to us, it seems as though you have blinders on and you just want to believe she was raped. You don't want to think she would lie about something like this.
As for what you can do, several people told you; nothing. There is nothing you can do. You can't save her or make her better. You honestly... (48 replies)
... girl, it will continue to be an unhealthy relationship and probably just get more dramatic as time goes on. and you never answered, what happens if she says you raped her? ... (48 replies)
... You're touching on a very important question. I've heard about daughters complaining of their fathers' sexual harrassment, and yet no material evidence of it was ever found. Yes, I'm afraid that some young girls are prone to fantasies of this sort. (48 replies)
... something else to think about......one day she might say you raped her......I'm curious as to what her definition of rape is? ... (48 replies)
... first of all, whether she is lying or not may not be the issue in YOUR eyes, Lazer, but what these people who are replying are trying to get you to see is that it may be a bigger issue that goes along with the problems you have been having with this girl all along.
There are many inconsistencies and no concrete evidence so far in this. And you don't seem to want to see... (48 replies)
Where ever the truth lay, you have a young woman on your hands with some major issues. The chance of you ever getting enough factual information about her, positively of negatively, is unlikely. If then you were able to appropriately "treat" her past, much less fix it...would honestly take a very good therapist that she trusts, and she could see on an ongoing... (48 replies)
... I'm confused...she went to the beach with her brother, but invited a girl from her class, some guy shows up instead and tries to kiss her, then he leaves, her brother leaves and then she gets raped?
If her brother was there, he must know what happened. Of course, a woman would be crying, distraught, possibly bruised and scratched, and her brother would certainly have asked... (48 replies)
... Lazer, I just read your other posts, and I honestly have to say that I think she's making it up. How many times can a girl get raped and attacked in her life? ... (48 replies)
... lazer I'm not doubting you, but I'm finding it hard to believe that this same girl got raped again.....especially in broad daylight while her brother was nearbye. I'd ask to see the police report if I were you. ... (48 replies)