... How healthy is this relationship going to be anyway? ... (28 replies)
... er thought about it. he said that same guy hurt his feelings when they open the dance school together and he didn't put him as a business partner, maybe because my boyfriend was young and he didn't see him in serious way about business. He sad that the guy mistreated him in many different ways. ... (28 replies)
... well I decided to share what happend today. I confronted him and also I had him read some of the comments you guys shared. I think my relationsheep is over. it upset him very much that i had those thoughts. ... (28 replies)
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... i totally agree with what amy said. i don't think it would be logical NOT to confront her bf about this letter and it's contents. i think his reaction to her confrontation is a strong indication that he's not ready for an intense longterm relationship. ... (28 replies)
... I agree. I have no idea if the guy is gay, bi, bicurious, a straight guy who experimented and won't again, or if the other guy totally made it up ... and I'm not passing judgment on any of the above. ... (28 replies)
... i have no problem with your question. there were allot of problems in my marriage, it's never just one thing. the end became because his abusive behavior increased. in retrospect his sexuality issues did play a big role. ... (28 replies)
... you can't make assumptions based on him being feminine and having clothing with certain colours... or any other stereotypes like that. Gay guys are like anyone else, except that they like guys. There is no gay "look" and not every gay guy looks like a member of the Village People. ... (28 replies)
... I think I know where the OP is coming from. ... (28 replies)
... Please save me confusion. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now and we love each other very much. I know I love him with everything inside of me. ... (28 replies)
... Oddly, it was actually me who said the no alternate meaning of lover thing! Yes, you're right. It is a bit of a hard story to swallow. I don't think that I'd accept that explanation. ... (28 replies)
... I also find this to be a very good point. I promise not to rant about the hypothesis offered by some schools, according to which all of us are intrinsically bisexual beings who mostly adopt hetero- or homo-, that is, monosexual practices or behaviours due to social constraints. Enough of that. The fact is that many men "experiment" with their sexuality in their early years,... (28 replies)
... I have to agree with BeaTrade. It is easier to accept the truth then deal with being lied to! ... (28 replies)
... I just don't see how she could ever accept that his is not at least bisexual because as someone else said earlier...there isn't some alternate meaning for the word "lover". ... (28 replies)
... Like Paradiva said, the guy who sent your bf that letter is a total nut job. That letter makes my skin crawl. Good thing that your bf got the heck away from that creep. yuck. ... (28 replies)
... so he called his mother and two other friends to ask them if they thought he was gay and to give him reasons they thought he might be gay. ... (28 replies)
... he could also have left because he sincerely saw that the relationship would never be the same again after the OP's checking his mail and questioning him. Which is which? ... (28 replies)
... This is what I was wondering to be perfectly honest. I have a very good male friend who was "approached" by a pedophile in the church on an overnight retreat. ... (28 replies)
... And add...he's just lying and denying because he is ashamed. Black is black and white is white! ... (28 replies)
... understand that he chose to go away because of this breach, maybe also because of his shame, and there's nothing else you can do about it, but I suppose his pain is equally great. ... (28 replies)
