... I know exactly how you feel. I believe that I am asexual and have felt this way for ten years. I went through times where I would engage in sexual intercourse with women to seem "normal" and just to see if I could eventually like it, but it has never been the case. ... (7 replies)
... Hmmm interesting you masturbate a lot. Usually when one is asexual they have no sex drive either. Tell me this, what are you fantasizing about while masturbating? ... (7 replies)
... WHy do you masturbate 6x a day if you are in sex? 6x is excessive even for people like me. (7 replies)
... I believe that my testosterone level is relatively normal. I have a lot of body hair and a relatively high sex drive as I masturbate about six times a day...lol. I am just not attracted to either sex. I don't know why but neither are appealing at all. ... (7 replies)
... Totally disagree. She's bothered because she thinks this is what other people want in a relationship, not because she 'can't have sex'. If other people didn't care about it either she would feel differently.
Plus, if you don't feel horny, how can you truly enjoy sex? (6 replies)
... I am guessing that you have a highly decreased sex drive, possibly genetics, possibly medications, or maybe just interest. Though I am not knowledgeable in that so I can't say much else. ... (6 replies)
... if you were truly asexual, then not having sex wouldn't bother you at all. What I mean is, you wouldn't be here asking the question, talking about going to a doctor. ... (6 replies)
... OK I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible, but I can't guarantee anything. ... (6 replies)
... I understand. I hesitated the first time I read your post to respond because you include many details that are difficult to address. ... (6 replies)
... for over two. Our lives are deeply intertwined. We have pets, we share bills, we share a car, we are involved in each other's families, etc. And she is a person I love very much. But I have started having my doubts. There are many things about our relationship that I love. We share the same values and convictions. ... (1 replies)
... I've never been married and I have no children, I'm intelligent in an above average sense, I've been told that I'm easy to talk to and I have a great sense of humor. ... (9 replies)
... I've come out as a five on the Kinsey grid, I'll have to check out the other one. Either way, I don't really trust those sorts of things, even if they are accurate. ... (14 replies)
... I was on the contraceptive pill Logynon for nearly three years when I met my current boyfriend. Almost a year into our relationship I became totally asexual, and don't have any want or need for sex or sexual contact. I never feel aroused although I do masturbate sometimes, but not often. ... (2 replies)
... This has put me into a very difficult situation. I enjoy sex with my romantic partners. But I also don't see how anyone can possibly be more perfect than this girl as far as personality. She and I are amazing together in how we interact. ... (7 replies)
... Sometimes you don't get turned on until you start kissing someone. I really don't think you can say you have no sex drive if you haven't had sex. ... (7 replies)
... you mention you like Cuddling, and that you like boys. have you ever had a Crush? A true one where you are obsessed and can't get them out of your mind. Not that you think they are kinda cute.
or do you Just like the attention Cuddlng gets you?
maybe you Just haven't met the right somebody yet.
Women find Sex through love (7 replies)
... I don't think she meant "all males are sex fiends, that's all they want".
What she's saying is, if you're in a relationship, eventually it is taken to the next level, which is sexual contact.
Without sexual contact, it's more like a friendship. Unless the other person is asexual, they ultimately want to have sex when they love somebody. (7 replies)
... he just didn't feel aroused, didn't feel the need for it, no matter what I did. It's not that he couldn't do it. I had in the begginning, when he was deeply in love with me. But, then, his feelings faded away and with it his desire. ... (6 replies)
... I agree with Brook65. I think your time will eventually come, and you may need someone older or more tactful than most guys... ... (6 replies)
... e undertreated and left with lingering symptoms. Also, being on the BCP will kill any sexual thoughts you could possibly have. They did that to my daughter and I had to take them short term for an issue and remember it was like I was dead inside sexually. ... (6 replies)