... Hopeing for some answers. My husband & I have been together for 21yrs we have to children 17 & 9 we went separate ways for awhile but 2wks after throwing his cheating a$$ out I found out I was pregnant I didn't want him to know but my big mouth sister said he had the right ( she was right ) well he begged me to take him back I just wanted to raise my baby myself I took him... (3 replies)
... Sounds like he is insecure or uncomfortabile about his sexual ability and H****y at the same time. For him it is probably easier to Mastrabate then ask you. Some times I think we tend to overthink sex.If he does not want to talk, you can't force him I would think we are just wired different have you tried pursuing him more than usual or as my wife would do ask him why he hates... (19 replies)
... I dont know have you talked to him about it force him to talk about it does feel insecure about something cause if i was in his position i would'nt need to masterbate cause it seems ur a understanding woman i am single but ya do need to chat why he needs to masterbate when hes got you unless ya not into that (19 replies)
... maybe spice things up to make him feel wanted and special, wear a sexy outfit or maybe flirt, if he is masterbating ask him if he liked it be sexual...he will think you are into it and he will get turned on. =) BUT most men masterbate. mine does and I dont care cause I still get some. don't feel pushed away or hurt, everyone does it. (4 replies)
... My husband masterbate and I feel abandone cause I am just waiting for him to make love and he always sleep late at night is he avoiding to make love with me or he satified in masterbating rather than make love to me and he always tell me that he don't need me just because he is doing a masterbaqte, explain it to me, cause I don't feel good and it hurts me? (4 replies)
... Nothing wrong at all....you are a man! I am 44 and still masterbate all the time despite having sex as well. I think it is just part of our nature and possibly conditioning since you first experimented with sex. ... (6 replies)
... Since Men have different requirements.Some men are more addicted to sex than others and in the absence of someone to fullfill
their requirements they do what they have been doing since age 10 yrs.
This practice continues all of their lives even into old age. (2 replies)
... what do guys need when they masterbate (2 replies)
... do you have to masterbate (1 replies)
... days out of a week and sometimes he does masterbate in between, usually for a realise, and i also masterbate 3 times a week even though I am having a lot of sex. It's normal for a guy to masterbate and normal for a womam to masterbate as well. ... (5 replies)
... why do guys masterbate when they already have a sex partner (3 replies)
... why do men masterbate (3 replies)
... Men masterbate because they have been since they were boys. It's just how many males start their day! It's how they balance their sex drives. ... (5 replies)
... I would imagine that men and women masterbate for the same reason. ... (5 replies)
... do men masterbate because they are not satisfied with wife (5 replies)
... Speak for your self sweetie :P I have a much higher sex drive than most of the ment i've known and so do most of my friends ...that's a very old fashioned view.....and we all masterbate..it's natural. (15 replies)
... For the same reason(s) women do!
Ex (15 replies)
... The amount of times a guy wants/needs sex is on average more times than majority of women want it. If a guy is constantly after you for sex, every morning and every night and more on the weekends, most women aren't up for it or are busy with other things or don't want sex for whatever other reason. His only option then is to masterbate.
I agree, men aren't the only ones... (15 replies)
... why do men masterbate? (15 replies)
... we dont HAVE to but we have a biological "need" to procreate. So if your not having sex then you need that release. I dont like wet dreams. no masturbation and within 3 days I will start having dreams. We were made this way. (7 replies)