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... ice. Not too long after that, our sexual relationship got better... BUT, that I now suspect was not on the up and up either. To explain, I had made it clear to my wife that I was open to having another child, but that it was her decision. ... (24 replies)
... I think you make some valid points here. But it is as if my wife expects me to do this alone. As if this is simply my problem. As far as she is concerned on a day in day out basis she doesn't give it a second thought. Why should she? ... (24 replies)
... At this point, my wife is not making any effort anymore. It also looks like she is now subtly crafting ways to make sure we have no opportunity for sex. ... (24 replies)

... s drive is how you are made, and that you are now struggling with thoughts that you don't want in your mind. Don't blame her for your thought life and definitely never admit anything about a specific woman. Own your own thoughts...but admit you are struggling and part of it is that you stopped being the lover she deserves. ... (24 replies)
... always set out to here to be brutally honest and to try to fix things. That is what we are on the way to doing I think. Anyway, I do think that the idea that my thoughts in and of themselves were destructive is a bit a of a stretch. ... (24 replies)
... d, "It is not often that we get alone time. Not often at all." She agreed. "We should cherish this." She agreed again. I invited her to lay next to me. She never did. She stayed where she was. ... (24 replies)
... I just read a simular post, but it was a women in the same situation with her husband not wanting sex unless she initiated it. That being said, I understand your situation. I have a simular one myself. ... (24 replies)
... My wife was joking the other day and said "Yeah there is only one thing on men's mind. ... (24 replies)
... I don't really know if anybody else said this, but maybe there is something bothering HER as well? Something that makes her feel unconfident, not sexy any more, nervous? Maybe she feels responsible for your sudden distance and worried airs and it is making her feel like she should take a step back too. I'm in a relationship right now and I'm the more horny one (and I'm the... (24 replies)
... you may have been told this already, I didn't read all the posts, but some women don't start out just craving sex like men do. I wondered the exact same thing about my ex wife. ... (24 replies)
... I notice you place a great deal of emphasis upon kissing. I will give you some advice from my own experience. I've been married a long time and while dating and early on in our marriage my husband and I kissed passionately. Some time ago that ended. ... (24 replies)
... Have you ever thought of sitting down with her and having a serious one on one discussion about the sex situation, as should be done between husband and wife if there is a problem? ... (24 replies)
... she wants sex more, you or your wife. ... (24 replies)
... hints without looking like I am giving hints would be appreciated. Yes giving hints means I am initiating to a degree but then again, she can clearly tell from my demenor lately that things are not right. She even asked me last night, "What's the matter with you? ... (24 replies)
... Small opportunity is opening up today. Kids will be away leaving about a one hour window. We shall see what develops. My expectations could not be lower. Perhaps after waiting a good amount of time I will drop more and more hints. Likely. But here is my prediction. ... (24 replies)
... Wow - what a story you have there. It sounds like you've tried everything - I can't offer you any advice, I was hoping I could. I can say that I understand, I do. I've been there too - I'm female too. My only advice? If even that's what you're looking for...perhaps print out what you wrote and give it to her? I don't know. Wish you well - you aren't alone. (24 replies)
... Hi Hazel. I can sympathize with you on this, as I am a male in the same position. My wife never initiates sex, but is ready most times if I spend a couple of minutes getting her interested. ... (5 replies)
... Soodle, is it possible your wife isn't into such long sessions? ... (4 replies)
... mrbojangle. I spent 6 years with my boyfriend who refused to initiate sex, refused to get help, refused to get himself checked out. ... (7 replies)
... Do i just have too high a sex drive? ... (4 replies)




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