It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Anger Management Message Board


Anger Management Board Index


Blake, I just want to say to you, BRAVO for recognizing that you have a problem, and wanting to change it. Not being able to deal with feelings of frustration and anger can lead to serious ways of acting out, and it's wonderful that you see the danger, understand your girlfriend's worry, maybe even about her own safety..and know that you want to do something about it. I think that you need to look for a counselor who specializes with anger management. At very least, you should look for a counselor who DEALS with people with anger issues. Once you can realize what is underneath the anger, and learn how to give yourself a "time out" before you overreact.....life will get better.
I know that seeing a counselor may seem extreme, but at this stage in your life it can improve the REST of your life in leaps and bounds. You're a good guy and I hope you follow through, do well, and feel peace when you get into arguments with ANYONE, really, knowing that your anger is manageable.
Blake, I just want to say to you, BRAVO for recognizing that you have a problem, and wanting to change it. Not being able to deal with feelings of frustration and anger can lead to serious ways of acting out, and it's wonderful that you see the danger, understand your girlfriend's worry, maybe even about her own safety..and know that you want to do something about it. I think that you need to look for a counselor who specializes with anger management. At very least, you should look for a counselor who DEALS with people with anger issues. Once you can realize what is underneath the anger, and learn how to give yourself a "time out" before you overreact.....life will get better.
I know that seeing a counselor may seem extreme, but at this stage in your life it can improve the REST of your life in leaps and bounds. You're a good guy and I hope you follow through, do well, and feel peace when you get into arguments with ANYONE, really, knowing that your anger is manageable.
Anger Management/counseling is a good thing....admitting you have an issue is an important 1st step. Having been married to sometime with a horrific temper (the clue here is HAVING BEEN) is the scariest thing ever....if you truly love her, please please get some help; if you could do it alone, you wouldn't be posting here. By taking no action you are putting your girlfriend as well as yourself in danger with possible lifelong consequences. Wishing you the best !





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:57 AM.





© 2020 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!