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Re: Angry Husband!
Apr 16, 2004
The article makes perfect sense. I only wish is was that simple.

I would be more than happy to give my husband 150 % and do all those things to meet his needs. But its kind of hard to want to have sex with him when he's constantly bitching and nagging me everyday about something. He complains so much about everything that goes on around here and usually turns it around so its my fault. He loves to play the blame game.

He would love sex three times a day, he would love for me to be very involved in his hobbies, he would love for me to look like a Victoria Secret Model. The list goes on. He should love me for me and he doesn't. He doesn't like talking to me, we have never taken long walks together. Just the other day he critized me and told me, "I have no skills" Of course he was just saying this out of spite, but why does he have to be so cruel all the time? I don't think he deserves me and doesn't know much about me at all.

I have tried to communicate my needs to him. I get no affection, well his idea of affection is slapping me on my butt. He doesn't talk to me, support me, encourage me, or respect me. I have tried the golden rule, "Do onto others as they would do onto you" Hoping if I showed him respect and admiration he would do the same for me. It never happens. I really do believe he is just immature.

I know there alot of men out there who can talk about their feelings and who do respect women, etc. I just am with the wrong man. I hope to one day find someone like my father. He was such a good man. Always sat and talked to my mother. There was relationship wasn't always perfect, but he truly loved her and respected her. Marriage is hard but it shouldn't be such a struggle just for us to get along.

I see him starting to treat my kids the same way. He's always getting upset with them over stupid things. There 3 and 1 and are going to make alot of mistakes, their just kids and I'm so tired of listening to him gripe at them. I think the best thing for both of us is to move on. If I stay he will pass it onto them. My son will treat women like crap and my daughter will allow to men to treat her bad. He does love them very much, just doesn't have any patience with them at all.

I'm now taking it one day at a time. Trying to do things in my life to make my happy and raise my kids the best I know how.
Re: Angry Husband!
Jun 1, 2004
I sound just like your husband. I treat my fiance like crap...Anything I can do to belittle her...She is too fat, her accent bugs me, her hair is not right, she don't fix herself up, we never have sex...I just constantly nag and ***** at her about everything and I get angry out of nowhere sometimes grabbing her and kind of lightly pushing her. I hate myself for doing those things and I can't control it...I have tried tons of different medications to control my behavior. She sticks with me for whatever reason because most of the time I am pretty decent guy. I am really trying to change my behavior, go to therapy, take anger management classes and just figure out what the hell is going on inside me to make me act that way. She really is an awesome person but I will do everything I can to treat her like crap and push her away from me. She will never be the person I want her to be...There is always someone else that is better (the grass is greener). I feel for you and I also feel for your husband. I hope he knows he has a problem and tries to get help. I hope I change for not just my sake but for my soon to be wife. She really does not deserve to be treated that way at all. I know she won't put up with it much longer so I really have no choice but to change or risk losing her. I am irrational and a jerk and I know it---its just frustrating to not know why you are like that.

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