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[QUOTE=warmbreeze]
Without knowing how your husband is as a husband in all other aspects of your marriage, I can't really give advise. If he's a good husband and loving towards you in every other way, his lack of jealousy shouldn't be a deal breakeer.[/QUOTE]

[COLOR=DarkOrchid]warmbreeze Thank you for the response :) I was glad to see someone finally came in and gave their input. I would just like to share that my husband is SO LOVING. He is always calling me babe, baby, and telling me how much he loves me (with all sincerity). He told me he was never the jealous type and that he trusts me not to do anything that would damage our relationship...so that is why he said he didn't react, cause he knows I wouldn't go anywhere with the flirtation that the guy was doing to me... I definatley know he loves me...ALOT...it is just that sometimes I'd like for him to show some jealousy, as ODD as that may sound...but you are right, it isn't a deal breaker! ;)[/COLOR]
[QUOTE=kerry1]I wouldn't assume that just because your husband ACTS like he doesn't care means that he actually doesn't care.[/QUOTE]


[COLOR=DarkOrchid]Kerry1:

YOu know that thought did cross my mind. Also I was thinking back to a night when we FIRST started off...we had probably only been dating for about 3 weeks...
I went out with some friends of mine and this "guy" that I use to work with years ago (almost 8 years ago) was there. He is a HUGE FLIRT...your typical Italian Guy. The thing is...I was only 25 at the time, and that guy was about 42! I never ever had any interest in him...in fact he was married and had a daughter my age!!! (A few years younger) Anyway, he came up to me at the club we were outside (it was summer time) and I was sitting down, he put his hand on my leg (near my knee) and squeezed my leg.

Well my (husband) boyfriend at the time was at that club...and I had seen him there..he stopped there with his friend and he knew I would be there...I never thought twice about it, but he was talking to some girls...with his friend. Well I guess he saw that guy grab my leg. I went over to talk to him and he was being very cold toward me, then he left. The next day we got together (he was always good about calling when he said he would...) and he brought that up about the guy grabbing my leg...and how he didn't like it.

So I guess that is why I was thinking...hmmmm maybe he just doesn't want to let on, but if he were with me and a guy hit on me...I don't think he'd be so naunchalaunt about it....???? Not sure, but after thinking about that situation...I think he would be or act a little more concerned... :angel: [/COLOR]
I just had to respond.My hubby(pre marriage) was always the jealous type.It kinda irked me , cause he didn't act like he trusted me.We talked & he said he would change his ways.Well, after marriage he went the complete opposite.Guys would hit on me and my kids would tell hubby how guys were checking me out.I also have a teen age daughter( I had her at 19 so I am still a young mom.)But all her guy friends(girl friends too) would tell her "you're mom is hot".(teen age boys- LOL).I even got approached while I was out with my hubby a few times-DUH, do guys NOT pay attention that I walked in on the arm of a guy!!!Even had my butt grabbed at a club & told my hubby, he says "why didn't you deck the guy?" HUH? I should add I am NOT the flirtatious type I am actually quite shy. Any way after a few years of this behavior I was begining to wonder what was in my hubby's head.So after I got approached in a gas station by a guy.(My hubby was out pumping the gas, I was in the store paying).My hubby asked what the guy in the store was talking to me about.I said "he invited me to a party, can you believe the nerve of that?"He said "oh"
I was so mad he acted like he could care less.I said why do you act like you don't even care?
His response:
"Baby, I knew when I married you that you were a very attractive woman, why would I expect other men to not find you just as attractive?"

Well, he melted my heart.It may have been a line of B* but it worked.LOL
Maybe your hubby just isn't surprised that other men find you attractive.He trusts you & that is maybe all he needs. :D





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