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i think the act of being angry about something that is definatley wrong, is healthy. it makes ME angry, to see people, myself included being walked all over, pushed around, used, mistreated, misjudged etc etc. and those things make me very very very angry. theres not much i can do about it, but if someone makes me angry, say a complete stranger at the grocery store who just straight up mistreats me or is RUDE and probably doesn't even realize it, im the kind of person who WILL tell them, i will point it out. because it does make me angry. now ive been told many many times i have a bad attitude and i shouldnt be like that. "i should let it go" but if everyone in the world has the attitude, "ill let it go" then NO ONE will ever be forced to face up to their actions. my wrongs have been pointed out to me time and time again, and eventually, i started to except some things i was definatley doing wrong, and changed them. if no one had of ever been mad at me enough to TELL ME how i was acting, what i was doing wrong, i would probably never noticed. because i ,just like most people, am self absorbed and selfish , becuase its human nature. like the old saying learn from your mistakes and others mistakes, u can't possibly live long enough to make them all yourself. its true. if i see say excuse me to someone more than TWICE, when im certian they heard me the first time, i do something about it now. i get around them one way or another, because they're going to realize they are NOT the only person in the world that matters. just an example, i was in a certian store, and a certian employee would not check me out. i stood there for 5 min. waiting on her to say she could check me out..... finally, another cashier came to the front and checked me out. but while i was there, another person walked up and the girl that looked me up and down and ignored me standing there, told a guy she could "check him out over here"
of course the guy was young, she was young. im young. im 20.. they couldnt have been any older. she wouldnt check me out because there was nothing in it for her. her job doesnt matter to her. she does not deserve the money shes making working there, because shes not working. i said something about it, it angered me. i yelled as i walked out of the store I APPRECIATE THAT ***** OVER THERE CHECKING OUT A GUY TO FLIRT WITH, BUT SHE WONT CHECK ME OUT. and the lady who actually did check me out looked kinda dumbfounded that i would scream this in the middle of the store, and said who are u talking about mam.... so i pointed my finger at the girl and said that ***** right there, quite loudly. customers did hear me. she looked right at me and heard me. her co worker should be angered that shes not doing **** and making her co worker do all the work. thats what goes on at MY job. but i dont stand for it anymore. and even though everyone might tell me therse something wrong wtih ME.... i think its the other way around, i think theres something wrong with all these people who are making me angry. im just theo nly one with guts enough to speak up about it. so i agre, sometimes anger IS healthy, and it DOES make u feel better to vent that anger, and why vent it on your friends,family,husband/wife /boyfriend/girlfriend when u could vent it DIRECTLY on the person thats causing the anger in the first place. now of course theres a limit to what u can say in public or who u can speak to that way especially government people, doctors, people with guns,, ETC. but if the chance is there, im taking it. and the times that i HAVE spoken up when i was angry at someone, i forgot all about it by the next day. the times when i held it in, and let it slide, were the times when i had to tell any1 and every1 how MAD i was about something, and i had several different things running through my head i wished i could have said but didnt.
you cant listen when people say "dont let things make you angry"
when we all start not letting things make us angry, we're letting the BAD people who make us angry, win.
my opinion !

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