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But seemy problem is not as bad as some women, with abusive husbands. My bf only has anger problems, he is not abusive towards me in any way. He only takes it out on me, because all of his friends dumped him when he quit doing drugs to make a better life for me and his child. so therefore i am the only person he has to listen to his problems. And when he is screaming, it is not at me, i just have to listen to it because i am the only person around him. I am not afraid for my life with him, i do feel protected all of the time, i just do not like him getting that angry all the time. for no reason. I am trying to figure out why he is this way. His dad moved in with us, (Finally out now) YAY, but i noticed while he was living with us, his dad always stays depressed, and angry, he is the most non social person i have ev er met. I just don't want my bf to end up like his father. I need help to get a little deeper, to figure it out.
[QUOTE=whitcole29;3083056]But seemy problem is not as bad as some women, with abusive husbands. My bf only has anger problems, he is not abusive towards me in any way. He only takes it out on me, because all of his friends dumped him when he quit doing drugs to make a better life for me and his child. so therefore i am the only person he has to listen to his problems. And when he is screaming, it is not at me, i just have to listen to it because i am the only person around him. I am not afraid for my life with him, i do feel protected all of the time, i just do not like him getting that angry all the time. for no reason. I am trying to figure out why he is this way. His dad moved in with us, (Finally out now) YAY, but i noticed while he was living with us, his dad always stays depressed, and angry, he is the most non social person i have ev er met. I just don't want my bf to end up like his father. I need help to get a little deeper, to figure it out.[/QUOTE]

yelling and venting at you because you're the only one who will listen to him IS being abusive, and the fact that you're making excuses for him shows just how far he's beaten you down already. And you don't want him to end up like his dad? He already is.....take off the blinders. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Don't try to be a hero and save this one....just toss him back.





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