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... Dear everyone, The question I'll pose is as old as the question of "which came first; the chicken or the egg?" I'm sure that many people go through this the same way, or some of it. So, feel free to give opinions/advice. I simply am up to my neck facing this, day after day, month after month. The issue I've is with my mom. On a regular basis, for no rhyme or reason,... (10 replies)
... eck cut fighting over some guy, never got maced by ruff necks. I Spent 4 years in a war zone and made it out alive by keeping my mouth shut. I got abused but not as bad as i seen others get abused. So keep your head up, you survived the torment. ... (20 replies)
... Thanks. :) Have you read anything on narcissistic parenting? A good book that really moved me was Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller. It opened my eyes to alot. After reading it, I went in and asked my shrink what narcissitic parenting had to do with me and the look on his face said, "pretty much everything." We spent the rest of the time talking about that. ... (10 replies)

... ely he wouldnt give them back. This isnt a big deal now to me obviously, but this is when the bulling started. The same day, I had a bald spot on my head which as a dumb kid I did myself. He called me baldy the next few days and I thought it would stop, but it didnt. ... (20 replies)
... bullying and going to the pta meetings. That may be an option for you to look into as well. ... (20 replies)
... not to make accusations, trry to be as diplomatic as possible, but tell her how you feel, if that doesnt work Maybe try some family therapy? ... (10 replies)
... Hello to all of u who have been teased please remember that the people who bullied u were just kids and probably also had their own problems and are probably even nice now kids will be kids not to say that its RIGHT but that holding grudges is pointless because they probably arent the same people they use to be. As a child if been cruel and mean few times during my childhood... (20 replies)
... What your mom meant is that one day those bullies will suffer as they have caused suffering. ... (20 replies)
... rt of power. I had MISERABLE HELLISH grammar school experiences and also from my high school. It hurts that today I still get bad comments and stares at me NOW as an ADULT but for a different reason. I look very young and people use it against me. I don't think I'll ever get out of being HATED and LOOKED DOWN UPON. ... (20 replies)
... a hard time in school. It's often hard to understand why some kids can be so mean to others, but it happens all the time, year after year. Not much has changed as I was also one of those kids who got picked on some 20 years ago! And it took me many years to come to terms with myself and let go of what others did to me. ... (20 replies)
... Hey Rev, the "thanks mom" made me chuckle. I use to say "thanks dad". Amazing what are parents can teach us without even realizing it. One thing I learned from this was to stop doing it to myself. Ex:If my father called me stupid because I didn't do something to his expections I realized that everytime I didn't do something 'perfect' I would get angry with myself. I had to... (10 replies)
... that trigger my anger has helped me to reduce the problem. Maybe your mom needs to learn a bit more about herself, as well. ... (10 replies)
... From my experience, I find a person who has to always yell is one that is used to throwing tantrums as a child to get there own way. Only in adulthood it turns into what your dealing with. ... (10 replies)
... Dear Health Boards readers, Thank you all for your kind support. To d90210: You are spot-on when U say those words. She is pushing everyone further & further away, each time she says those ridiculous words. To 2ndtimearound: Your answer amazed me. You actually went through somewhat similar circumstances like mine. You are luckier; you managed to move out. My mom... (10 replies)
... Some people won't consider counselling. They see it as something that weak people do. Your Mum MAY be one of these people. ... (10 replies)
... I was bullied as a kid and it began in kindergarten. ... (20 replies)
... she won't even remember the names of most of the popular crowd from school because you'll all have moved on into your exciting new lives as successful adults and that stuff will long since have gone by the wayside where it belongs. ... (20 replies)
... Hi to everyone who was bullied. I am 48 years old and I will never ever FORGET the bullying. It started the first day of elementary school and went on until I dropped out of school in tenth grade. There were only a couple of times that my family moved to another state that I was not bullied by the people I grew up with. I was pretty and smart as a child, but I was mentally... (20 replies)
... I was "bullied" at my all-girl high school, via being shunned and laughed at. Before that, I had been shy but ok socially. Also, during my high school years, I still had several close friends from my neighborhood who did not go to that high school. The problem went away after high school graduation, not to resurface again until I was 39 years old! Now I'm being shunned at... (20 replies)
... Forgiveness is not so much a matter of letting the other person off the hook, as it is about letting go of all the emotions you have around the situation so it doesn't hurt you anymore. ... (20 replies)

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