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I'm so sorry for your lose, I have a friend who recently lost her son who was 19 years old, she has gone threw some really hard months but she is taking baby steps in the right direction. She has been going to counseling and it has really helped her. I know Christmas is going to be hard for you but it's going to be hard also on you children, They need there Mom, they need your love, your strength and you love for the Holidays. I would do something special in honor of your son who has passed away, like making a donation of money to a charity or buy some Christmas ornaments that remind you of him and hang them on the tree. Right now your lost in your sorrow and that is your only focus, you need to pick yourself up and Christmas shop for your other Children focusing on other things is good for you, that is what they told my friend who lost her son, get out of the house and think of other things and focus on your family and friends, it will make you stronger and you become a little more grounded, you'll have one foot on the ground.
Karen W.
HI sorry to hear of your loss i lost my baby 20 years ago she only had 3/4 before she became an angel,she was my first baby i also find it hard at xmas i have another 3 children now and i have always made sure they have the best xmas and they also dont forget joanne my daughter as every xmas eve we traveled 40 miles to her grave untill the last 3 years we have been away as i lost my dad to a stroke,He had a stroke 10 years before that made him house bound and use to spend xmas with us i couldnt stand to be at home after we lost him so traveled away but always made sure i went to church on xmas eve to pray for my daughter.We went to austria at one time there was a little church we made a snowman it was for joanne right outside the church the whole family had fun making it.So i do hope you can get through this sending all my love from one angels mother to another

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