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... I have enjoyed my time to regroup and heal but I have yet to find a soulmate and have only a few good friends who have been there for me. I used to be there for everyone and now I save my energy and try to be my own bestfriend. ... (6 replies)
... I am sorry that you have suffered so many losses in such a short period of time. ... (6 replies)
... eft me high and dry. Then I was made to feel guilty for thinking I needed them, and got so many excuses..."oh I thought you'd want to be alone" or "didn't think you wanted people around" etc... ... (15 replies)

... I stumbled across this thread trying to understand how friends can be so not there when times are toughest. I immediately identified with your pain about how people, Christian people can be so cold. ... (0 replies)
... First off, I want to thank everyone for all of their very helpful replies! I wish I had come to the board again a lot sooner. It's always so helpful to see that you arent the only one going thru a particular thing. I do think it's rather disgraceful though, that this sort of thing happening is so common.... ... (15 replies)
... I am new to this site and browsed a little. I was glad to know that I was or am not alone in the experiences of good friends abandoning me during a time of loss. I was a caregiver for my Dad with Alzheimers for 7 years we kept him home. ... (6 replies)
... Thank you for your response... ... (15 replies)
... My prayers are with you. It is amazing how friends and good friends just disappear when the going gets rough. I can definately feel for you. ... (15 replies)
... It'd be like lending money repeatedly to someone who NEVER pays you back. It is really wise to continue to lend them money? ... (15 replies)
... odd years. But at this point in time it is too raw to put it aside. I have learnt one thing, that is I truly believe it is best to surround yourself with those who you believe will be there for you.. ... (15 replies)
... I am truly sorry to hear that you are going through this as well... it does happen way to often. ... (15 replies)
... This is one of the saddest threads I have read. I am so hurt for you all that these people let you all down when you really needed them. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you all. ... (15 replies)
... Like you, I am one who would call, send cards, gifts, visit, etc. ... (15 replies)
... I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I probably wouldn't have known what to say to you because there is nothing I could say that would make you feel better. I had a friend who lost her brother, he was helping someone with a flat tire and another car hit him. ... (15 replies)
... While in Europe he stocked me for two years. I confused it with love. Here he picked up my paycheck and I was not aloud to touch the checkbook. However it was me who was working while he was going to school getting his Masters first and than PhD. Credit cards were under his name. Had to be at home after work promptly. ... (21 replies)
... Well good on you for wising up and moving on! People like him are users. The world is overloaded with them. They literally look for people to victimize. ... (21 replies)
... you again for your uplifting message. Just wondering how old you are? ... (21 replies)
... Thank you, and yes I am glad who I am. Altough it is a lonely place that I am in at this point in my life, it is a wise time as well. Have a great day and stay in touch. ... (21 replies)
... Pattianne, how long have you been widowed? ... (21 replies)
... Pattianne, just a quick note. Do you have good acupancturist Doctors where you live? ... (21 replies)




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