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... I think people have a really hard time being around when someone is hurting and like the other poster said, don't know what to do to help someone deal with a death. It is very uncomfortable for most. Most don't want to be around it. Unfortunately that leaves you on your own. ... (15 replies)
... left me high and dry. Then I was made to feel guilty for thinking I needed them, and got so many excuses..."oh I thought you'd want to be alone" or "didn't think you wanted people around" etc... ... (15 replies)
... Thank you for your response... ... (15 replies)

... First off, I want to thank everyone for all of their very helpful replies! I wish I had come to the board again a lot sooner. It's always so helpful to see that you arent the only one going thru a particular thing. I do think it's rather disgraceful though, that this sort of thing happening is so common.... ... (15 replies)
... I stumbled across this thread trying to understand how friends can be so not there when times are toughest. I immediately identified with your pain about how people, Christian people can be so cold. ... (0 replies)
... I am really sorry for all you have gone through....it is very, very painful... devastating in fact. ... (15 replies)
... Most people don't know what to say. They are afraid of bringing up a subject that may be painful to you. ... (15 replies)
... I am truly sorry to hear that you are going through this as well... it does happen way to often. ... (15 replies)
... I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I probably wouldn't have known what to say to you because there is nothing I could say that would make you feel better. I had a friend who lost her brother, he was helping someone with a flat tire and another car hit him. ... (15 replies)
... you again for your uplifting message. Just wondering how old you are? ... (21 replies)
... You probably do not want to know what happened to that person either. It's not the psychology that's dangerous. The manipulative personality is the true danger. Psychology is a powerful tool, yes. ... (21 replies)
... Oshooun, I am happy to have received your reply. It is ameising, but I was married for about six years, no children, divorced and never remarried. ... (21 replies)
... Well, I guess it is somewhat comforting to know that I am not the only person to experience this. ... (15 replies)
... I will forgive these people for what they have put myself and two children through, considering my mother and I were there for them all the time for 20 odd years. ... (15 replies)
... Pattianne, just saw your posting. Sorry to hear about your daughters, not being there for you. ... (21 replies)
... Oshooun, you wont believe this, but my ex is a Psychologist. He almost destroyed me, and he used Psychology to do that. A tape that he recorded himself saved me or I would not be writing this. Psychology is a powerful tool that could help and in the wrong hands also destroy. ... (21 replies)
... Pattianne, how long have you been widowed? ... (21 replies)
... Pattianne, just a quick note. Do you have good acupancturist Doctors where you live? ... (21 replies)




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