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... eft me high and dry. Then I was made to feel guilty for thinking I needed them, and got so many excuses..."oh I thought you'd want to be alone" or "didn't think you wanted people around" etc... ... (15 replies)
... Thank you for your response... ... (15 replies)
... My prayers are with you. It is amazing how friends and good friends just disappear when the going gets rough. I can definately feel for you. ... (15 replies)

... I stumbled across this thread trying to understand how friends can be so not there when times are toughest. I immediately identified with your pain about how people, Christian people can be so cold. ... (0 replies)
... First off, I want to thank everyone for all of their very helpful replies! I wish I had come to the board again a lot sooner. It's always so helpful to see that you arent the only one going thru a particular thing. I do think it's rather disgraceful though, that this sort of thing happening is so common.... ... (15 replies)
... I am really sorry for all you have gone is very, very painful... devastating in fact. ... (15 replies)
... her friends have mostly melted away... it hurts her terribly. ... (15 replies)
... It'd be like lending money repeatedly to someone who NEVER pays you back. It is really wise to continue to lend them money? ... (15 replies)
... I am his sister, and only sibling. When he got into the accident, I called everyone I knew to ask them to pray for my brother. People called the first day or 2, then dropped off. ... (15 replies)
... called friends. Total strangers on the internet have been more supportive. I will never look at these people the same again. They let me down and walked away when I needed them the most. It would take two minutes to send an email saying "Hi, thinking of you. Hope you are all right." But saying nothing says a lot!!! ... (15 replies)
... I think people have a really hard time being around when someone is hurting and like the other poster said, don't know what to do to help someone deal with a death. It is very uncomfortable for most. ... (15 replies)
... d years. But at this point in time it is too raw to put it aside. I have learnt one thing, that is I truly believe it is best to surround yourself with those who you believe will be there for you.. ... (15 replies)
... I am truly sorry to hear that you are going through this as well... it does happen way to often. ... (15 replies)
... March 28, 2006 and my brother and his wife was here at my house and my neice and her husband, my sister and her husband came but my Mom had already passed away. When they came to pick my Mom up to take her to the funeral home, everybody just got in the cars and left me. I felt so alone and hurt. ... (15 replies)
... This is one of the saddest threads I have read. I am so hurt for you all that these people let you all down when you really needed them. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you all. ... (15 replies)
... r than, God is in control. He allows things to happen.... we usually dont and wont know all the whys this side of Heaven. In the meantime, I would really suggest you try so hard to forgive all who have so deeply disappointed and hurt you.... otherwise you will become bitter and then that just spoils your life, it really does. ... (15 replies)
... I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I probably wouldn't have known what to say to you because there is nothing I could say that would make you feel better. I had a friend who lost her brother, he was helping someone with a flat tire and another car hit him. ... (15 replies)
... e. Had to be at home after work promptly. I was 100 pounds and he was telling me to watch my weight, I went down to ninety. He openly flirted in front of me, and when I objected he told me that I did not own him. He would use silence treatment not only for days but for months. ... (21 replies)
... Well good on you for wising up and moving on! People like him are users. The world is overloaded with them. They literally look for people to victimize. ... (21 replies)
... you again for your uplifting message. Just wondering how old you are? ... (21 replies)

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