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Hello,

First of all, many thanks to the knowledgeable people who post here regularly. Your willingness to help and your seemingly endless reserves of patience are inspiring.

To test that patience a bit more: about 7-8 years ago, when I was 16, I had unprotected sex that lasted for probably less than one minute, though I can't actually recall the exact amount of time. I found out later that the woman whom I had sex with worked as an escort, though I have reason to believe she'd only just begun and only had done it once to make some money on the side. She was quite older than I (how I got into this situation is a long story and suffice it to say that the circumstances won't recur).

Well I was stupid at the time and did not put too much thought into the risk I had taken. Time went on and I sort of forgot about it.

Fast forward to 2012, and I'm a bit worried. I've been experiencing numbness/tingling in my limbs, and I have recently had some sort of rash appear around my mouth (google tells me it's something like Seborrheic dermatitis or eczema, I have struggled with dandruff and rash-prone skin all my life). The back of my tongue is covered in whitish gunk, though it looks to me more like the regular buildup of food and post-nasal drip for which they sell tongue-scrapers. My lips are sort of blistery and rough--just not in the best of shape. Other than that, I do not have a fever and have not had one in a very long time, my lymph nodes do not seem to be swollen, certainly not in more than one place, and I have actually gained about 20 pounds in the past few years.

I do understand that symptoms are not used in diagnosis and that testing is the only actual way to tell. I'm absolutely going to get tested. However, I am in the middle of an extremely stressful, career-making endeavor at work and simply cannot muster the courage to test until probably ten full days from now. If I do test positive, I want to have accomplished this goal, and I'm sure that the diagnosis would prevent me from following through if I turn out to be unlucky.

In the mean time, I would greatly appreciate any input or thoughts or really anything to soothe my writhing nerves. As I understand it, if I had contracted HIV on the night I described earlier--all sex since then has been protected or with a woman of known negative status--I would now be experiencing symptoms of the onset of AIDS if I were experiencing symptoms at all.

Is it likely that what I've described would occur without constitutional symptoms like fever and weight loss? Is fever a sort of pre-requisite to the rest of it?

And of course, the big one: there is no way to answer, I know, but I'm going to ask anyway because desperate times call for stupid questions: the odds seem to be in my favor, the most often-cited statistic for my risk as a circumcised heterosexual male living in a developed country being 1/2000. Given the odds and the description of my situation and symptoms, what should I expect, realistically? If it seems bad I'd rather hear it, because I'd rather go into this expecting trouble than to be surprised with something as devastating as a positive diagnosis.

Thank you for reading. I know these posts must get old; trust me when I say that I wouldn't have typed this out if I hadn't felt like it was the only way to get me through the next few days.





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