Re: How do you respond to constant inquiries of "any news yet"

Just Dance - I LOVED your comments...so TRUE and I had a belly laugh!

I made a decision to let a few of my close family members and friends know we were going thru IVF for the first time. I am currently one day shy of BETA results at 4pm and I can tell you all one thing...I will not be sharing this personal part of my life with anyone anyone my DH in the future unless I have to. Of course, the support from all of you fabulous women is not included in that statement.

I took a urine-HPT this morning and it was negative, I can't believe I did it. i should have waited until tomorrow.Tomorrow is blood work for BETA and I already know it's probably negative. I could not stop myself from the HPT, I am weak. Now I have to figure out how to tell everyone that it was not successful this time around if that is the case. I will have to live through it again & again every time I have to explain that this was not our month. I wish I had not told so many people, I just want to heal and move on without everyone bringing it up . I know they all mean well, however it makes me sad just thinking about how I will tell my Mom and my brother if the Beta is negative. So many people are so emotionally involved that maybe if I had not told them, it would save them and myself all the hurt of a BFN.:(

Am I crazy?