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Hi everyone, I'm in a really difficult situation and I don't know what to do.. I would trully appreciate if you have any comments or ideas on my situation. Here's whats going on: I am a 18 year old male, uncircumcised, and I have had sex (that is, vaginal intercourse) for about 2 years.

Ever since I started masturbating (I guess around 13 or so) I have never masturbated the way it was described in books etc. where you put the hand around the penis and fully move up and down, imitating intercourse. Instead I would put one hand around the bottom of my penis and keep it there and only move the foreskin up and down the head of the penis with my other hand, never bothering to move my hand all the way up and down. It never "felt right" to do it the full way.

It actually seems to me as if my foreskin is somewhat tight. It doesn't feel good to pull it back all the way. I think it was tighter before I started having sex but then loosened up a bit. Still I never changed the way I masturbate.

However, I have two problems that bother/terrify me when having sex.

First of all, every intercourse I've had, I was never able to have an orgasm, most intercourses lasted 40 minutes till 90 minutes, and my partner wanted to stop. I find this rather terrifing, since my partner always asks if I reached an orgasm, after about 5/10 minutes.

The second thing is that I can't really enjoy sex at all, it doesn't feel pleasant to me. I can go slow, but this doesnt help much at all. The only feeling I've have experienced is when my partner would ''grind'' but this was not sufficient for me to reach any real pleasure. I myself think that this comes because, I'm not really mentally prepared. I usually think about normal things of the day, and I can't really ''focus'' on thinking of the intercourse, wich sometimes cause me to go ''weak'' during the intercourse wich leads to my partner thinking that it is her fault. It is true I have never had intercourse with someone who I really had srtong feelings for, but i dont know if this is the cause of my problem.

Last but not least I have noticed that when my penis is fully erected (completely hard, such as shortly before orgasm) I really can't pull my foreskin back without it hurting. It doesn't seem to hurt though when it is 90% erect. Maybe that's the reason for me taking so long to reach orgasm that my foreskin is basically strangling my penis when it gets closer to orgasm?

Also, I have had these white ''dots'' around the ''head'' of my penis. They are as small as sand, and they don't cause any real problem, but I am worried if this can be some ''illness''

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