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Hello, I can feel your pain and know what you are going through. I have lost two babies, both at 13 weeks. It is a devastating loss and very hard to come to terms with. It is very easy to get depressed and immobilized by the grief. Keep in mind, that it is ok to grieve and feel down, but make yourself get back up and keep going. The chord wrapped around the neck is actually a pretty common problem. I have a son who almost died at birth because the chord was wrapped around his neck twice. Thankfully, he pulled through, but it was touch and go for a while. People aren't going to know what to say to you and will say really stupid things. They mean well but that doesn't always make it easy to deal with. Find people you can talk to and keep a journal. I wrote to the babies in a journal for a little while after I lost them. We always remember them at Christmas. We bought them each an ornament and that is the first ornament we put on every year. We also named each of them. It made their existence real to me. Some people don't do this, but it made me feel good and there is no right or wrong in these situations, just what is best for you. Take care and keep posting!
Hey What can I say, your pain is something no one can understand. It just happned to me today and I am just crying after that. I was 9 week pregnant and Today went for ultrasound and doc told that their is no heartbeat from last four weeks and baby is not grown more. I never thought that can happen to anyone . I always thought three months are critical and I am just crying so much I donot think I can survive..It was my first baby it is baby for me i lost my baby. Everyone in family is saying that it is okay but how can be I am crying so much that from last 7 and half hours. Their is no happiness anymore fofr me..I wish this shouldnot happen to anyone

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