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Well After last week's craming, bleeding and backache. things took a turn for the worse. We went to the hospital midnight as the bleeding got worse. the Dr. sent me for an ultrasound the next day and there was no heartbeat. I was 13 weeks. the sack was there but no fetus.....I was annoyed with the technician who said it was probably a good thing that this happened as something could have been wrong with the baby. At this point I was alone ad did not know what to do. The radiologist was a bit more understanding and told me to go and call someone. I went to my car and called my partner who immeidately came to the house. We went over everything and he was also speechless.....

I immediately called my OBGYN who was out of town. She gave me an appt for 2 days later. By the next day I was in discomfort starting around 4:30pm and the cramping turned into contractions every 3-5 minutes which went on until 2:30am the next day. I could not wait that long so a relative who is a Dr called my OBGYN and got me an appt the next morning @ 10am From there I went directly to the hopsital for a D&C.

this is a very painful experience one in which I truely was looking forward to becoming a mother for the first time. I just pray that I am able to conceive again, I am 36 years even though this was not planned. We were exicted.

I wish I had paid attention more to the backache when it happend. I remembered telling my partner that the shape of my stomach had changed the weekend before and I also felt a lot of pulling in the lower abdomen.

The Dr said things like this happen it does not mean that I did anything wrong, but maybe the Chromisones (sp) did not line up properly. Or even my age...

I just hope that I can conceive again in a year....
Good bye for now and best of luck in your pregnancies, take care of yourselves........





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