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Hi Dana,
Thanks for your post, the funny thing is my SIL's name is Dana too! I try to give her hope and to stay positive and to keep smiling. I feel so bad for her, she has wanted children for ages. Have you had any fertility testing done? She is contemplating having this done but must wait until the end of October (3 mths after the D&C). She is trying the Billings Ovulation Method so maybe this will work. Two other aquantainces have tried this method of charting their cycles and they were both pregnant by the 3rd mth. Have you been trying anything to increase chances of fertility? I'm not sure that they would go as far as fertility drugs. In a small way, I understand your frustration with TTC. I had a son while on bc pills 14 years ago now. So when my husband and I were ready to have a second child (my son was 4 1/2) I expected to get pregnant within the first month-but no. At 6 mths I was getting pretty depressed and by 1 year I had given up hope. By 2 years I had come to terms that I was only meant to have 1 child and sorta came to terms with it. And guess what...in August of 2000 I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant and my second beautiful son was born in April 2001. The 2 kids are within days of being 10 yrs apart and it took us 5 yrs to conceive our second child. I was 34 when my second son was born and if I knew I could have gotten pregnant right away after my second son was born I would have absolutely had a third child but even though I had 2 children already I couldn't stand the thought of not getting pregnant right away as my biological clock was starting to tick.
I'm sorry that you have to go through this too. It just doesn't seem fair. It does seem like those that want children the most have the hardest times.
Good luck from the bottom of my heart and keep us posted,
Chris





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